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rebuilding relationships in recovery: Relationships in Recovery Kelly E. Green, 2021-08-06 Addiction can wreak havoc on relationships, destroying trust and damaging bonds with family, friends, and colleagues. Substance use both causes these interpersonal problems and becomes a method of trying to cope with them. Psychologist and addictions expert Kelly Green has learned through working with hundreds of clients that maintaining healthy relationships is key to the recovery process. In this compassionate, judgment-free guide, Dr. Green shares powerful tools for setting and maintaining boundaries, communicating feelings and needs, ending harmful relationships respectfully, and reestablishing emotional intimacy. With inspiring narratives, downloadable self-assessment worksheets, and exercises, this book lights the way to a life untethered from addiction--and filled with positive connections-- |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Relationships in Recovery Kelly E. Green, 2021-07-30 Addiction can wreak havoc on relationships, destroying trust and damaging bonds with family, friends, and colleagues. Substance use both causes these interpersonal problems and becomes a method of trying to cope with them. Psychologist and addictions expert Kelly Green has learned through working with hundreds of clients that maintaining healthy relationships is key to the recovery process. In this compassionate, judgment-free guide, Dr. Green shares powerful tools for setting and maintaining boundaries, communicating feelings and needs, ending harmful relationships respectfully, and reestablishing emotional intimacy. With inspiring narratives, downloadable self-assessment worksheets, and exercises, this book lights the way to a life untethered from addiction--and filled with positive connections-- |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Loving Someone in Recovery Beverly Berg, 2014-02-02 Recovering addicts are faced with many challenges, and these challenges can often extend to their romantic partners. During the recovery period, couples often struggle with overcoming feelings of betrayal and frustration, and may have a hard time rebuilding trust and closeness. While there are many resources available to recovering addicts, there are limited resources for the people who love them. In Loving Someone in Recovery, therapist Beverly Berg offers powerful tools for the partners of recovering addicts. Based in mindfulness, attachment theory, and neurobiology, this book will help readers sustain emotional stability in their relationships, increase effective communication, establish boundaries, and take real steps toward reigniting intimacy. The material in this book is drawn from the author’s successful Conscious Couples Recovery Workshop. With more than 25 years in the field, she has developed a unique set of exercises that address the issues faced by couples in recovery. This book addresses the roles that both partners play in recovery, and aims to help readers develop a new appreciation for one another and improve self-confidence and acceptance. The road to recovery is never an easy one, but by building a strong support system, the chances of success are exponentially greater. For more information on Berg’s work, visit consciouscouplesrecovery.com |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Rebuilding Bruce Fisher, Robert E. Alberti, 1999-11 A positive step-by-step programme for putting your life back together when your relationship ends. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Rebuilding Relationships in Recovery Janice V. Johnson Dowd, LMSW, 2025-03-04 How to heal relationships, mend rifts with loved ones, and balance the demands of sobriety with the need for family connection An empowering guide for recovering addicts and alcoholics from an author with lived experience and professional expertise In Rebuilding Relationships in Recovery, Janice V. Johnson Dowd shows readers how to repair and enhance their relationships after active addiction. With personal insights and professional wisdom, Dowd—a licensed social worker in recovery—explores her own personal journey through alcoholism, offering a realistic and transformative guide. Centered on nurturing the critical balance between the self-healing of your own sobriety journey and building bridges and connections with loved ones, Dowd’s narrative combines empathetic insights with practical tools. The book covers: Understanding Addiction's Impact: Exploring how addiction affects family dynamics and the individual’s role within them. Effective Communication: Strategies for opening dialogue and maintaining honest, supportive conversations. Setting Realistic Expectations: Dispelling common misconceptions and establishing attainable goals in recovery and relationship rebuilding. Making Amends: A step-by-step guide to acknowledging past harms and initiating the healing process. Support Networks: Developing and maintaining a support system that encourages sobriety and personal growth. Rebuilding Relationships in Recovery is a roadmap to healing and thriving in sobriety, offering hope and actionable strategies for those seeking to rebuild trust and deepen their family bonds. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Recovery Book Al J. Mooney, Catherine Dold, Howard Eisenberg, 2014-09-09 “A classic. Read it. Use it. It can help guide you step by step into the bright light of the world of recovery.” —from the Foreword by Harry Haroutunian, M.D., Physician Director, Betty Ford Center “The Recovery Book is the Bible of recovery. Everything you need to know you will find in here.” —Neil Scott, host, Recovery Coast to Coast radio Hope, support, and a clear road map for people with drug or alcohol addiction. Announcing a completely revised and updated second edition of The Recovery Book, the Bible of addiction recovery. The Recovery Book provides a direct and easy-to-follow road map to every step in the recovery process, from the momentous decision to quit to the emotional, physical, and spiritual issues that arise along the way. Its comprehensive and effective advice speaks to people with addiction, their loved ones, and addiction professionals who need a proven, trusted resource and a supportive voice. The new edition of The Recovery Book features the revolutionary Recovery Zone System, which divides a life in recovery into three chronological zones and provides guidance on exactly what to do in each zone. First is the Red Zone, where the reader is encouraged to stop everything, activate their recovery and save their life. Next is the Yellow Zone, where the reader can begin to rebuild a life that was torn apart by addiction. Finally, the reader reaches the Green Zone, where he can enjoy a life a recovery and help others. Readers also learn how to use the Recovery Zone ReCheck, a simple, yet very effective relapse prevention tool. The Recovery Zone System works hand-in-hand with the 12-step philosophy and all other recovery methods. In addition, The Recovery Book covers new knowledge about addiction mechanisms and neuroplasticity, explaining how alcohol and drugs alter the brain. The authors outline a simple daily practice, called TAMERS, that helps people to use those same processes to “remold their brains” around recovery, eventually making sobriety a routine way of life. Written by Al J. Mooney, M.D., a recovery activist who speaks internationally on recovery, and health journalists Catherine Dold and Howard Eisenberg, The Recovery Book covers all the latest in addiction science and recovery methods. In 26 chapters and over 600 pages, The Recovery Book tackles issues such as: Committing to Recovery: Identifying and accepting the problem; deciding to get sober. Treatment Options: Extensive information on all current options, and how to choose a program. AA and other 12-Step Fellowships: How to get involved in a mutual-support group and what it can do for you. Addiction Science and Neuroplasticity: How alcohol and drugs alter pathways in the brain, and how to use the same processes to remold the brain around recovery. Relapse Prevention: The Recovery Zone ReCheck, a simple new technique to anticipate and avoid relapses. Rebuilding Your Life: How to handle relationships, socializing, work, education, and finances. Physical and Mental Health: Tips for getting healthy; how to handle common ailments. Pain Control: How to deal with pain in recovery; how to avoid a relapse if you need pain control for surgery or emergency care. Family and Friends: How you can help a loved one with addiction, and how you can help yourself. Raising Substance-Free Kids: How to “addiction-proof” your child. The Epidemic of Prescription Drugs: Now a bigger problem than illegal drugs. Dr. Al J. Mooney has been helping alcoholics and addicts get their lives back for more than thirty years, using both his professional and personal experiences at his family’s treatment center, Willingway, and most recently through his work as medical director for The Healing Place of Wake County (NC), a homeless shelter. The Recovery Book will help millions gain control of their mind, their body, their life, and their happiness. www.TheRecoveryBook.com |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Love, Hope & Recovery Joann E. Breeden, 1993-11-01 A former alcoholic describes her treatment and recovery, offers encouragement to addicts to seek help, and discusses rebuilding relationships and finding inner peace |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: I Love You But I Don't Trust You Mira Kirshenbaum, 2012-02-07 A guide to restoring trust in broken relationships from a renowed couple’s therapist. Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged. In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Addiction Recovery Skills Workbook Suzette Glasner-Edwards, 2015-12-01 An Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies (ABCT) Self-Help Book Recommendation. Winner of the 4Th International Beverly Hills Book Awards in the category of Addiction & Recovery! Is your addiction taking control of your life? This book provides an integrative, seven-step program to help you finally overcome drug and alcohol addiction, once and for all. If you struggle with addiction, seeking treatment is a powerful, positive first step toward eventual recovery. But gaining an understanding of the causes of addiction—such as feelings of helplessness or loss of control—is also crucial for recovery. In this book, addiction expert Suzette Glasner-Edwards offers evidence-based techniques fusing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based relapse prevention to help you move past your addictive behaviors. On the long road to addiction recovery, you need as many tools as possible to help you stay sober and reach your destination. That’s why this is the first book to combine research-proven motivational techniques, CBT, and mindfulness-based strategies to help you create your own unique recovery plan. The book can be used on its own or as an adjunct to rehab or therapy. It also makes a wonderful resource for loved ones and professionals treating addiction. If you're ready to take that important first step toward recovery, this book can help you beat your addiction and get back to living a full, meaningful life. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Rebuilding Trust in the Workplace Dennis S. Reina, Michelle L. Reina, 2010-10-03 An expert guide to resolving coworker conflicts and healing hurt feelings and resentments, to create a more productive—and pleasant—environment. Are you feeling less engaged, less committed, and more skeptical at work? Do you find yourself isolated? Or are you caught in the middle of co-workers’ interpersonal conflicts? If so, you may be experiencing the symptoms of broken trust in workplace relationships. Small but hurtful situations accumulate over time into the confidence-busting, commitment-breaking, energy-draining patterns consistent with broken trust. Everyone has experienced gossiping, missed deadlines, someone taking credit for other people’s work, or “little white lies.” You may have been hurt. You may have realized that you inadvertently let others down. Or you may be wondering how to help others reeling from broken trust. No matter your vantage point, this new book from two award-winning authors and consultants to top-tier organizations offers a proven seven-step process to heal pain and rebuild trust. This compassionate, practical approach helps you reframe the experience, take responsibility, forgive, let go, and move on. You can feel motivated to go to work again—and safe to be more fully who you are, giving your organization your best thinking, highest intention, risk-taking, and creativity. And in a place of self-discovery, self-trust, and authenticity, you can connect more fully with others in your personal life as well. While there have been many books on recovering from betrayal in personal relationships, this is the first to focus specifically on the workplace—and the first to give equal weight to what to do when you have hurt others. “Rebuilding trust is a job you cannot ignore if you want a thriving workplace. Don’t miss this book.” —John Kador, author of Effective Apology |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Behavioral Couples Therapy for Alcoholism and Drug Abuse Timothy J. O'Farrell, William Fals-Stewart, 2012-03-12 This eminently practical guide presents an empirically supported approach for treating people with substance abuse problems and their spouses or domestic partners. Behavioral couples therapy (BCT) explicitly focuses on both substance use and relationship issues, and is readily compatible with 12-step approaches. In a convenient large-size format, the book provides all the materials needed to introduce BCT; implement a recovery contract to support abstinence; work with clients to increase positive activities, improve communication, and reduce relapse risks; and deal with special treatment challenges. Appendices include a session-by-session treatment manual and 70 reproducible checklists, forms, and client education posters. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Coping with Alcohol and Drug Problems Jim Orford, 2005 Coping with Alcohol and Drug Problems aims to deepen and extend understanding of the experiences of family members trying to cope with the excessive drinking or drug taking of a relative. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Loving Choices Bruce Fisher, Nina Hart-Fisher, 2000 The author of Rebuilding has created a powerful, personal, practical, and provocative guide to building new and lasting, loving relationships. Loving Choices is packed with insights, exercises, and examples to help readers turn life's challenges into loving choices. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Facing Heartbreak Stefanie Carnes, Mari A. Lee, Anthony D. Rodriguez, 2012-10-16 The first workbook to help partners of sex addicts cope with discovering their loved one has compulsive sexual behaviors. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction Paldrom Collins, George N. Collins, 2011-12-18 Like other psychiatric disorders, sexual addiction is a condition that affects peoples' relationships with others as much as it affects their own mental state. Individuals suffering from sexual addiction typically pursue sex through any means possible and often engage in risky forms of sexual activity such as exhibitionism, promiscuous sex with multiple partners, online sex, etc. It's easy to see how a couple's relationship may be challenged by the manifestations and reality of a disorder like this one. A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction discusses common relationship issues within the context of sexual addiction and provides the reader with exercises, information, and advice on the following topics: Trust Communication Healthy sexuality & sexual behaviors Family By understanding the reality of sexual addiction and what it means for a relationship, couples will be able to better relate to each other and plan for a successful future. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Open Hearts Patrick Carnes, Debra Laaser, Mark Laaser, 1999 Hopeful and helpful guidance on transforming one's most intimate bonds |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken Cindy Beall, 2021-10-19 Resurrect beauty from the ashes of betrayal Wife and mother Cindy Beall’s world was shattered when her beloved husband of nine years confessed his pornography addiction, numerous affairs, and the stunning news that another woman was pregnant with his child. What could have been the end of a marriage instead became a testament to God’s miraculous ability to restore broken hearts and damaged bonds. With the wisdom and healing she’s gained in the twenty years that have passed since her husband’s devastating revelation, Cindy shares her own experience as well as those of couples she’s counselled. Drawing from her intimate knowledge of human pain and God’s power, Cindy shows how you can… seek support, counseling, and prayer after deception has surfaced rebuild trust that’s been eroded by infidelity, addiction, or other transgressions help your family heal from grief and reconcile with any long-term consequences rely on God to pursue forgiveness and move forward in new promises Cindy’s remarkable story, compassion, and grasp of God’s Word will help you trust God with your heartache as you seek His hope and redemption. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Exaholics Lisa Marie Bobby, 2016-02-10 Severing a cherished relationship is one of the most painful experiences in life—and cutting those emotional ties to a loved one can feel almost like ending an addiction. Up till now, people recovering from other problems were able to get real help—like AA and rehab—while those struggling in the aftermath of traumatic breaks dealt with platitudes and friends insisting they should get over it already. But now Exaholics Anonymous treats getting over an ex like kicking a chemical habit. Written by counselor and therapist Dr. Lisa Bobby, Exaholics offers meaningful support and advice to anyone trapped in the obsessive pain of a broken, or dying, attachment. She helps the brokenhearted heal, showing them, on a deep level, how to develop a conceptual framework for their experience, understand the emotional processes at work inside themselves, find the path to recovery, and free themselves of shame, injured ego, and remorse. In-depth case studies of others' journeys will illuminate the way to future happiness. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: When Your Partner Has an Addiction Christopher Kennedy Lawford, Beverly Engel, 2016-10-04 Your partner's addiction takes a toll on both of your lives. That doesn't mean you should turn your back on the person you love. We've been told that staying with a partner who struggles with addiction—whether it be with drugs, alcohol, or addictive behaviors—means that we're enabling their destructive behavior. That wanting to help them means we're codependent, and that the best thing for both of us is to walk away from the relationship entirely. But is that true? When Your Partner Has an Addiction challenges the idea that the best chance for recovery—for the addict and their partner—is to walk away. Instead, it makes the revolutionary claim that you, and the love you have for your partner, can be a key part of his or her journey to recovery. Together, addiction activist and bestselling author Christopher Kennedy Lawford and psychotherapist Beverly Engel, MFT, take a fresh look at addiction and codependency—the latest research on what causes them and what the two have in common. Rather than treat addiction or codependency as disease or weakness, When Your Partner Has an Addiction honors the trauma and shame that often lie at their source and shows you how to use your love to combat that shame, allowing you to more effectively support your partner and heal yourself. The research proves that, while you cannot fix your partner, you can have a positive impact on their recovery. Whether you suffer from codependency, and whether your partner is already in recovery, When Your Partner Has an Addiction provides you with proven techniques and strategies to drastically improve your relationship and help get your partner the help he needs—without leaving and while taking care of yourself in the process. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Together We Heal: A Couples' Guide to Addiction Recovery and Rebuilding Trust Catherine Johnson, Together We Heal: A Couples' Guide to Addiction Recovery and Rebuilding Trust Addiction Recovery Workbook for Couples Addiction is a devastating force that can wreak havoc on relationships, leaving behind a trail of broken trust, emotional turmoil, and shattered dreams. But there is hope. In Together We Heal: A Couples' Guide to Addiction Recovery and Rebuilding Trust, you will discover the tools and strategies needed to overcome addiction as a team and rebuild your relationship on a foundation of love, understanding, and unwavering support. In this transformative guide, you will find a comprehensive roadmap to help you and your partner navigate the challenging journey of addiction recovery, fostering a renewed sense of connection, intimacy, and trust along the way. Drawing from the latest research, professional insights, and real-life experiences, Together We Heal offers practical advice, actionable strategies, and powerful techniques that will empower you to face addiction head-on and emerge stronger, healthier, and more resilient than ever before. Here's a glimpse of what you'll uncover in this life-changing book: A step-by-step guide to creating a supportive recovery environment, including setting boundaries, establishing healthy communication patterns, and nurturing emotional safety. Proven strategies for strengthening your emotional connection during addiction recovery, such as prioritizing open and honest communication, expressing gratitude, and practicing active listening skills. Tips for rekindling romance and affection in your relationship, with practical suggestions for scheduling regular date nights, demonstrating physical affection, and exploring each other's love languages. Techniques for cultivating shared interests and experiences that will help you grow as a couple and create lasting memories together, from trying new hobbies to setting shared goals and engaging in community projects. A comprehensive plan for maintaining sobriety, preventing relapse, and continuing to evolve as a couple, featuring actionable advice on sticking to your relapse prevention plan, staying connected to support networks, and prioritizing self-care. A glossary of essential terms related to addiction recovery, enhancing your understanding of key concepts and facilitating effective communication between you and your partner. And much more! Addiction doesn't have to spell the end of your relationship. With determination, compassion, and the right support, you and your partner can overcome the challenges of addiction and rebuild your lives together, one step at a time. Together We Heal provides the guidance, encouragement, and resources you need to face addiction as a united front, transforming your relationship into a source of strength, healing, and hope for a brighter future. Don't let addiction dictate the course of your love story. Embark on the journey towards lasting sobriety, renewed trust, and a stronger, healthier partnership with Together We Heal: A Couples' Guide to Addiction Recovery and Rebuilding Trust. Order your copy now and start your journey to healing today! |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Love First Jeff Jay, Debra Jay, 2021-04-27 This revised and expanded third edition of the gold-standard for intervention provides clear steps for harnessing the power of family, friends, and professionals to create a better future with loved ones suffering from addiction. Over the course of the last twenty years, Love First has become the go-to intervention guide for tens of thousands of families. This trailblazing book empowers and equips families and friends to use the power of love and honesty to give their addicted loved ones a chance to reach for help. Updated with the latest addiction science as well as insights gained from decades of front-line experience in family interventions, this revised and expanded edition contains practical tools for taking the next step together: transforming the intervention team into an ongoing community of loving support, lasting accountability, and lifelong recovery. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Chronic Pain and Addiction Michael R. Clark, Glenn J. Treisman, 2011-01-01 The relationship between chronic pain and addiction Patients with chronic pain understandably seek relief from their distress and discomfort, but many medications that alleviate pain are potentially addictive, and most chronic pain conditions only have a temporary response to opiate analgesic drugs. This volume reviews the fundamental topics that underlie the complex relationships of this controversial domain. The authors review behavioral models and practical methods for understanding and treating chronic pain and addiction including methods to formulate patients with complex comorbidity and screen patients with chronic pain for addictive liability. Finally, the authors describe the current findings from clinical and basic science that illuminate the role of opiates, cannabinoids and ketamine in the treatment of chronic pain. Up to date and comprehensive, this book is relevant to all professionals engaged in the care of patients with chronic pain or addiction and all others interested in these contemporary issues, particularly non-clinicians seeking clarity in the controversy over the best approach to patients with chronic pain. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Abstinence Myth Adi Jaffe, 2018-06-15 Breaking free of outdated explanations and rigid rules for recovery, The Abstinence Myth offers a hopeful, research-based framework for transformation by an addiction expert and renowned TEDx speaker who overcame his own addiction and has guided hundreds of clients into lives of joy and purpose. In this simple yet radical new book, Adi Jaffe, PhD, draws on his own life experience, cutting-edge research, and work with hundreds of clients and families to offer a new perspective on addiction and a new pathway out of its grasp. The Abstinence Myth introduces the IGNTD RECOVERY METHOD, including: - Details of Adi's dramatic and inspiring personal story. - The Mythology of Addiction and how it gets in our way with spiritual, biological, psychological, and environmental assumptions that are, in fact, only true some of the time for some people. - Why the concept of abstinence is often a barrier to change and is not necessary for everyone for all time. - Important research that will shift your thinking, sense of hope, and success. - Why shame can keep holding you back--and finding the way out. - An explanation of the 3 IGNTD principles and the 9 steps to personalize your unique recovery path. It's time to throw out the rulebook. You can overcome the hopelessness, the doubt, and move forward. You can create a life you're proud of. Whether you're seeking help for yourself, a loved one, or anyone you might be guiding through a personal transformation, The Abstinence Myth will change lives. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Therapeutic Community George De Leon, PhD, 2000-04-15 This volume provides a comprehensive review of the essentials of the Therapeutic Community (TC) theory and its practical whole person approach to the treatment of substance abuse disorders and related problems. Part I outlines the perspective of the traditional views of the substance abuse disorder, the substance abuser, and the basic components of this approach. Part II explains the organizational structure of the TC, its work components, and the role of residents and staff. The chapters in Part III describe the essential activities of TC life that relate most directly to the recovery process and the goals of rehabilitation. The final part outlines how individuals change in the TC behaviorally, cognitively, and emotionally. This is an invaluable resource for all addictions professionals and students. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Measuring Recovery from Substance Use or Mental Disorders National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, Health and Medicine Division, Board on Health Sciences Policy, Division of Behavioral and Social Sciences and Education, Board on Behavioral, Cognitive, and Sensory Sciences, Committee on National Statistics, 2016-10-19 In February 2016, the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine held a workshop to explore options for expanding the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration's (SAMHSA) behavioral health data collections to include measures of recovery from substance use and mental disorder. Participants discussed options for collecting data and producing estimates of recovery from substance use and mental disorders, including available measures and associated possible data collection mechanisms. This publication summarizes the presentations and discussions from the workshop. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Road to Recovery: Rebuilding Lives and Communities Pasquale De Marco, 2025-05-09 The Road to Recovery: Rebuilding Lives and Communities is a book about hope and resilience. It is a collection of stories from people who have faced incredible challenges and emerged stronger on the other side. These stories are a testament to the human spirit and the power of perseverance. In The Road to Recovery: Rebuilding Lives and Communities, Pasquale De Marco shares the lessons he has learned from his years of working with people who are rebuilding their lives. He offers practical advice on how to overcome obstacles, build resilience, and find hope in the darkest of times. This book is for anyone who has ever faced adversity. It is a reminder that you are not alone and that it is possible to overcome any challenge. With hope, resilience, and perseverance, you can rebuild your life and achieve your dreams. Here are just a few of the stories you'll find in The Road to Recovery: Rebuilding Lives and Communities: * A single mother who lost her job and home, but found the strength to rebuild her life and create a better future for her children. * A cancer survivor who used his experience to help others facing the same disease. * A veteran who returned home from war with PTSD, but found healing and purpose through art therapy. * A person who lost a loved one to suicide, but found the courage to speak out about mental health and help others. These are just a few examples of the many inspiring stories you'll find in The Road to Recovery: Rebuilding Lives and Communities. This book is a testament to the power of the human spirit and the resilience of the human heart. If you are ready to rebuild your life, this is the book for you. If you like this book, write a review on google books! |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Sobering Melissa Rice, 2021-01-07 'Unique, honest, witty, occasionally shocking, you need this uplifting, amazing book in your life.' Steve Bland, You, Me and the Big C 'I don't know if I was born with it, caught it or bought it; I just know that, at some point in my life, a line was crossed: I needed a drink to get through life, to calm the nerves and quiet the head, and I became reliant on alcohol to change how I felt.' Sobering is the story of an insecure teenager turned Liverpudlian party girl, schoolteacher turned alcoholic and now recovering alcoholic turned award-winning podcaster. Melissa's story is as dramatic as her unique voice, but her message is universal: mental health issues often drive vulnerable people to addiction and working on mental health and personal development can help recovery. Written with the expert help of rehab and addiction specialists, and with insights from other recovering alcoholics and addicts, Sobering covers everything from denial, isolation and shame to getting help and rebuilding relationships. This is a personal story with a mission: to help anyone worried about their drinking to understand themselves and move forward with wisdom to make that hardest decision of all - to stay sober. 'Melissa's unique combination of authenticity, personal experience and humour makes for an incredibly refreshing take on addiction and recovery. A much-needed book that will help individuals to find hope and society to rethink substance misuse.' Shahroo Izadi, author of The Kindness Method |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Don't Call It Love Patrick Carnes, 2013-12-18 Dr. Patrick Carnes is a creative, pioneering, and courageous human being. His books are changing the lives of thousands! I lost three marriages, all because of affairs. I became suicidal because of multiple intense involvements. I spent money on sex when I needed it for children's clothes. I lost promotion opportunities and a special scholarship because my co-workers found out about my sex life. Every day they face the possibility of destruction, risking their families, fiances, jobs, dignity, and health. They come from all walks of life: ministers, physicians, therapists, politicians, executives, blue-collar workers. Most were abused as children--sexually, physically or emotionally--and saw addictive behavior in their early lives. Most grapple with other addictions as well, but their fiercest battle is with the most astounding prevalent secret disorder in America: sexual addiction. Here is a ground-breaking work by the nation's leading professional expert on sexual addiction, based on the candid testimony of more than one thousand recovering sexual addicts in the first major scientific study of the disorder. This essential volume includes not only the revealing findings of Dr. Carne's research with recovering addicts but also advice from the addicts and co-addicts themselves as they work to overcome their compulsive behavior. Positive, hopeful, and practical, Don't Call It Love is a landmark book that helps us better understand all addictions, their causes, and the difficult path to recovery. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Addiction And Recovery Xena Mindhurst, 2025-01-08 'Addiction and Recovery' presents a groundbreaking examination of substance dependence that bridges the gap between scientific understanding and practical treatment approaches. The book masterfully integrates cutting-edge neuroscience research with actionable recovery strategies, offering readers a comprehensive view of addiction as both a medical condition and a complex social phenomenon. Through careful analysis of brain imaging studies and clinical research, it reveals how substances fundamentally alter neural pathways and hijack the brain's natural reward systems, challenging traditional notions that addiction is merely a matter of willpower. The book's unique three-part structure guides readers through the essential components of understanding and treating addiction. Beginning with the neurobiological foundations, it explores how genetic predisposition interacts with environmental factors to influence addiction development. The middle section examines the broader societal impact of substance use disorders, while the final portion presents evidence-based recovery strategies, from medication-assisted treatment to cognitive behavioral approaches. This progression ensures readers gain both theoretical knowledge and practical tools for addressing addiction. What sets this work apart is its accessible presentation of complex scientific concepts, making it valuable for healthcare professionals, individuals struggling with substance dependence, and their families alike. By incorporating real-world examples, case studies, and current research findings from National Institute on Drug Abuse, the book provides a thorough yet approachable resource for understanding modern addiction science and treatment methodologies. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Art of Recovery S. SANJAY RAO, 2025-01-29 |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Recovery from the Ashes: A Guide to Regaining Control Over Your Life Pasquale De Marco, 2025-05-03 Recovery from the Ashes: A Guide to Regaining Control Over Your Life offers a comprehensive and compassionate guide to recovery, providing you with the tools and support you need to overcome addiction and achieve lasting sobriety. This book is not merely a collection of theoretical knowledge; it is a practical roadmap filled with actionable steps and real-world strategies. You will learn how to: * Understand the nature of addiction and its underlying causes * Identify triggers and cravings, and develop effective coping mechanisms * Build a strong support system and access professional help * Repair broken relationships and rebuild trust * Reclaim your physical and mental health * Rediscover your identity and purpose * Navigate financial and legal challenges * Stay sober in a challenging world * Find meaning and fulfillment in recovery With empathy and unwavering honesty, Pasquale De Marco shares personal stories and inspiring examples of individuals who have successfully navigated the path of recovery. These stories offer hope and encouragement, reminding you that lasting sobriety is possible. Whether you are struggling with addiction yourself or seeking to support a loved one, Recovery from the Ashes: A Guide to Regaining Control Over Your Life is an invaluable resource. It provides a comprehensive understanding of addiction, practical guidance for recovery, and a message of hope and empowerment. Embrace this book as your trusted companion on the journey to lasting recovery. With its evidence-based strategies, compassionate support, and unwavering belief in your ability to succeed, Recovery from the Ashes: A Guide to Regaining Control Over Your Life will guide you every step of the way towards a life of freedom, fulfillment, and lasting sobriety. If you like this book, write a review on google books! |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Moving Beyond Betrayal Vicki Tidwell Palmer, 2016-05-16 A go-to guide on how to confront, heal from, and ultimately thrive after the devastation of betrayal by a partner's compulsive sexual or other addictive behavior The first book specifically for partners affected by addictive behavior that addresses, in detail, how to identify, create, and maintain boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for healing and growth. Through working the 5-Step Boundary Solution partners will gain clarity; reduce the chaos inherent in relationships impacted by sex addiction; feel more empowered and in control of their lives; discover whether or not their relationship with the addict is salvageable. Vicki Tidwell Palmer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) in private practice in Houston, Texas. She is the author of the blog for partners Survival Strategies for Partners of Sex Addicts. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: What Makes Love Last? John Gottman, John Mordechai Gottman, Nan Silver, 2012-09-04 One of the foremost relationship experts applies the insights of science toward understanding the real meaning of trust between a couple and suggests a new approach to handle adultery. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Marriage and Relationship Junkie Sherry Gaba, Beth Adelman, 2020-06-30 After Rihanna and Alanis Morissette and Amber Smith and Rachel Uchitel, we've all heard about love addiction--people who feel they can only be happy when they are deep in an all-consuming love. There are a handful of books about it (including Facing Love Addiction by Pia Melody, Women Who Love too Much by Robin Norwood, Love Addict by Ethlie Ann Vare, and others), and many rehab and recovery centers are now advertising that they help clients with love addictions. But no one has approached the subject of its equally damaging cousin--marriage and relationship addiction. Marriage addicts are so in love with love that they continually move from one relationship to another, always on the rebound, never giving themselves time to heal and learn how to be independent. They marry again and again, just to avoid feeling lonely--or worse, to avoid feeling abnormal. The Marriage Junkie will address all of these issues, looking at early childhood trauma and how that affects our subsequent choices in partners, and how we approach love and marriage. It will discuss the lessons we learn from our upbringing and social and cultural background--lessons that sometimes teach us what healthy relationships look like, but sometimes teach us something else: that we don't deserve any better; that a typical relationship looks turbulent and difficu This is an important book. Sherry Gaba clearly identifies a common pattern in relationships and shows the negative results on relationships of self-abandonment. - Margaret Paul, PhD Co-Creator of Inner Bonding |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Path to Inner Freedom: A Journey of Recovery Pasquale De Marco, In The Path to Inner Freedom: A Journey of Recovery, embark on a transformative voyage towards liberation from the shackles of addiction. This book is your beacon of hope, offering guidance, wisdom, and a roadmap to healing. Written for those who seek a brighter future, it takes you on a path of rediscovery, self-compassion, and resilience, where recovery is not just a destination but a profound journey of self-transformation. Our story begins with a deep exploration of the complexities of addiction. We dissect the layers of denial, revealing the importance of self-awareness. You'll find support from those who have walked a similar path, providing understanding and empathy to help you break free from the cycle of addiction. The journey starts with the understanding that you're not alone, and hope is within reach. As we delve deeper, we unlock the mind-body connection's secrets. This book introduces the power of relaxation, meditation, and mindfulness in healing. It's not just about recovery; it's about rejuvenation. Discover how nutrition and exercise become your allies in rebuilding your life, both physically and emotionally. The Path to Inner Freedom unfolds the chapters of inner strength, teaching you to confront stress and challenges with resilience. It's about letting go of guilt, shame, and self-doubt, and embracing self-compassion and self-esteem. The journey is one of rebuilding self-worth and recognizing your inner power. This voyage of healing takes you to the heart of emotional recovery and rekindling relationships. Therapeutic tools and the power of forgiveness play a pivotal role, leading to a sense of purpose and meaning in your life. The path is not just about breaking free from addiction; it's about finding your true self and flourishing. Step by step, you will embrace change as you reshape your life and priorities. Triggers and temptations will no longer hold you captive as you cultivate resilience. Setbacks and relapses are not the end but part of the process. In this book, we celebrate every small victory and milestone, reminding you that recovery is a continuous journey. This book is your guide to living in the present, appreciating each moment, and finding joy and gratitude in everyday life. It's about letting go of the anxiety about the future and immersing yourself in the beauty of now. By the time you reach the end, you'll have rekindled relationships and built love, trust, and support within the recovery process. A spiritual journey is intertwined, allowing you to explore and connect with your inner self. We discuss various spiritual practices, embracing inner peace and a higher purpose. Regardless of your beliefs, this book is here to help you find your unique sense of transformation and spirituality. Your journey does not conclude with the final chapter; it's a lifelong commitment to inner freedom. We guide you in sustaining your recovery, sharing your story to inspire others, and leading a life filled with purpose and freedom from addiction. The Path to Inner Freedom: A Journey of Recovery is not just a book; it's a lifeline to a new beginning, a brighter future, and a journey toward the inner freedom you deserve. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: How to Fix a Broken Heart Guy Winch, 2018-02-13 Imagine if we treated broken hearts with the same respect and concern we have for broken arms? Psychologist Guy Winch urges us to rethink the way we deal with emotional pain, offering warm, wise, and witty advice for the broken-hearted. Real heartbreak is unmistakable. We think of nothing else. We feel nothing else. We care about nothing else. Yet while we wouldn’t expect someone to return to daily activities immediately after suffering a broken limb, heartbroken people are expected to function normally in their lives, despite the emotional pain they feel. Now psychologist Guy Winch imagines how different things would be if we paid more attention to this unique emotion—if only we can understand how heartbreak works, we can begin to fix it. Through compelling research and new scientific studies, Winch reveals how and why heartbreak impacts our brain and our behavior in dramatic and unexpected ways, regardless of our age. Emotional pain lowers our ability to reason, to think creatively, to problem solve, and to function at our best. In How to Fix a Broken Heart he focuses on two types of emotional pain—romantic heartbreak and the heartbreak that results from the loss of a cherished pet. These experiences are both accompanied by severe grief responses, yet they are not deemed as important as, for example, a formal divorce or the loss of a close relative. As a result, we are often deprived of the recognition, support, and compassion afforded to those whose heartbreak is considered more significant. Our heart might be broken, but we do not have to break with it. Winch reveals that recovering from heartbreak always starts with a decision, a determination to move on when our mind is fighting to keep us stuck. We can take control of our lives and our minds and put ourselves on the path to healing. Winch offers a toolkit on how to handle and cope with a broken heart and how to, eventually, move on. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Trusting Recovery and Desistance Lauren Hall, 2023-11-30 The social processes which underpin and shape our lives have the power to significantly transform the trajectories of people experiencing recovery from addiction and desistance from crime. Recovery from addiction and desistance from crime are processes which are often experienced and supported in the same physical spaces and are also frequently experienced by the same people. This book therefore synthesises and presents research on the social influences of recovery and desistance. This book presents the social component model of recovery from addiction and desistance from crime: a strength-based approach presenting case studies to better understand the social factors of both recovery from addiction and desistance from crime and therefore a step towards enhancing evidence-based policy and practice. The social components that have emerged and will be discussed within this book include relationships and social bonds; social identity, group membership, and social networks; and social capital. Compiled based on observations, interviews, and social identity mapping methods, this work combines and presents theory and research to enhance and strengthen the evidence available for people who are already teaching about, supporting, and experiencing both desistance from crime and recovery from addiction in practice. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Rewiring the Self: Integrating Mind, Body, and Spirit for Trauma Recovery Myrtle Drake, 2025-04-14 This groundbreaking book offers a revolutionary approach to trauma recovery, guiding you on a journey of self-discovery and profound transformation. Through a unique blend of cutting-edge neuroscience, ancient wisdom, and practical exercises, you'll uncover the hidden connections between your mind, body, and spirit. Prepare to embark on a journey of self-healing as you explore the profound impact of trauma on your entire being. Discover the neuroscience behind trauma's lasting effects, and gain insights into how your body and mind hold onto its imprint. By integrating ancient healing practices with modern scientific understanding, this book provides a holistic roadmap for reclaiming your well-being. Through interactive exercises and guided meditations, you'll learn to regulate your nervous system, soothe emotional triggers, and cultivate resilience. You'll embark on a personal quest to uncover your inner strengths, fostering a deep connection with your true self. Ultimately, this book empowers you to break free from the constraints of trauma, unlocking your potential for a fulfilling and thriving life. Whether you're a survivor of trauma, a therapist seeking deeper insights, or simply someone seeking to optimize their well-being, this book offers a transformative path to healing and personal empowerment. |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Pasquale De Marco, 2025-04-11 Embark on a transformative journey towards lasting sobriety with Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention. This comprehensive guidebook provides invaluable insights and practical strategies for individuals seeking recovery from substance use disorders. Delving into the complexities of addiction, Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention unravels the underlying causes of substance use, empowering readers with a profound understanding of their own struggles. It meticulously examines the various treatment options available, guiding individuals in selecting the most appropriate path for their unique needs. The book emphasizes the crucial role of building a strong support system, fostering self-awareness, and developing effective coping mechanisms to prevent relapse. Recognizing the multifaceted nature of addiction, Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention addresses the emotional and psychological toll it takes on individuals and their loved ones. It offers expert advice on rebuilding broken relationships, repairing damaged trust, and achieving financial stability. The book also explores the legal and criminal justice implications of substance use, providing guidance on managing legal consequences and seeking restorative justice. Furthermore, Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention recognizes the importance of education, employment, and stable housing in promoting long-term recovery. It provides practical guidance on re-entering the workforce, pursuing higher education, and securing stable housing. By addressing these crucial aspects of life, individuals can rebuild their lives and create a foundation for lasting success. With compassion and empathy, Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention illuminates the path to recovery, offering hope and inspiration to those seeking a healthier and fulfilling life. It is an invaluable resource for individuals seeking recovery, their loved ones, and professionals working in the field of addiction. Breaking Substance Use Habits: A Guide for Recovery and Relapse Prevention is a testament to the power of human resilience and the possibility of transformation. If you like this book, write a review on google books! |
rebuilding relationships in recovery: The Expanse of Recovery: Navigating the Journey to Healing and Transformation Pasquale De Marco, 2025-04-28 In the vast expanse of personal growth and healing, The Expanse of Recovery emerges as a beacon of hope, guiding individuals through the transformative journey of overcoming addiction and embracing lasting recovery. Within these pages, readers embark on an introspective voyage, delving into the depths of addiction, its impact on individuals and families, and the essential steps toward lasting healing. With profound empathy and unwavering support, this book illuminates the path to detoxification and withdrawal, providing a roadmap to navigate the physical and emotional challenges that arise. The foundation of recovery is meticulously explored, emphasizing the significance of self-compassion, robust support systems, and effective coping mechanisms. Readers are empowered to confront the obstacles and challenges that inevitably surface along their recovery journey, learning to manage emotional ups and downs, overcome cravings and triggers, and rise above setbacks with resilience and unwavering determination. The book delves into the profound connection between mind, body, and spirit, underscoring the importance of holistic practices in promoting healing and rejuvenation. Through nourishing physical health, engaging in mindfulness and meditation, and fostering creative expression, individuals cultivate a fertile ground for lasting transformation. The journey of recovery extends beyond the individual, reaching into the realm of relationships and community. The Expanse of Recovery illuminates the art of rebuilding broken bonds, mending trust, and communicating openly and honestly. By setting boundaries, forgiving ourselves and others, and reconnecting with loved ones, readers reclaim their place in the tapestry of human connection. The quest for purpose and meaning is explored, guiding individuals in discovering their passions and aspirations, setting goals, engaging in meaningful activities, and contributing to their communities. Through heartfelt storytelling and practical guidance, this book inspires readers to cultivate gratitude, embrace the gift of recovery, and share their stories to uplift others. Acts of kindness and service extend the healing embrace of recovery, creating a ripple effect of hope and transformation. The Expanse of Recovery is a transformative companion, offering solace, strength, and inspiration to those seeking to reclaim their lives from the clutches of addiction. Embark on this journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment, and discover the limitless possibilities that lie beyond addiction. If you like this book, write a review on google books! |
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