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| how to pleasure a woman: How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure Lou Paget, 2007-12-18 What, and where, is the G-spot? Where do women like to be touched, and how? For every man who's hungry to please the woman he adores, a refreshingly modern, tastefully explicit, and totally honest guide to giving your woman absolute pleasure. Millions of men out there are looking for the real scoop on what women like, and want to learn how to really rub them the right way, but are either afraid to ask or don't know where to look. And millions of women are looking for ways to tell men what really turns them on, but don't know how to put their desires into words. Well, search no further! How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure will take you to another level as a lover, providing you with the proven techniques and explicit advice that have made author Lou Paget one of the world's most respected and sought-after sexuality experts. Based on the secrets shared by hundreds of men and women in Lou's enormously popular Sexuality Seminars, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure gives the true scoop on what women really like, and why, along with detailed surefire techniques guaranteed to drive any girl wild. Packed with little-known details and steamy tips and tricks--from the nooks and crannies of a woman's body to the fine art of tongue--How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure removes the mystery from woman's sexuality and shows you how to enhance your bedroom expertise. With tips on creating the ideal romantic atmosphere, finding her elusive erogenous zones (there are more than you'd think), and mastering the delicate art of foreplay, Lou provides the down-and-dirty details on the ins and outs of amazing oral and manual sex, innovative intercourse positions, and most important, how to capture the big O. Complete with over seventy step-by-step illustrations, as well as a catalog of sex toys and tips on how to use them, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure is a refreshingly straightforward, always stimulating guide that will take you and your partner to new levels of ecstasy and intimacy. |
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| how to pleasure a woman: Women, Sex, Power, And Pleasure Evelyn Resh, CNM/MPH, 2013-03-01 In her new book, Women, Sex, Power & Pleasure, Evelyn Resh, a sexuality counselor and certified nurse-midwife, takes an innovative approach to helping women create the lives – and sex lives – they want. With a funny and compassionate, yet tell-it-like-it-is style, she looks at the relationship between feeling powerful in life and accessing life’s pleasures, and their combined effect on sexual desire. Resh introduces six essential qualities that women must have to live healthfully, stating that when these are out of balance women seem to exist in lives devoid of pleasure, self-empowerment, and sex. These markers of emotional well-being are: • Self-confidence and self-esteem • Healthy Habits • Spiritual Satisfaction • Creativity • Self-assurance/re-assurance • Compassion and Empathy Once the six traits are laid out, Resh devotes the rest of the book to exploring how, when one or more of a woman’s markers of emotional well-being are off kilter, their reasons for avoiding sex mount exponentially. She looks at some of the most common excuses she’s heard over her many years as a sexuality counselor – I Feel Nothing, It’s All He Thinks About, I’m Too Busy!, I’m Too Fat to Have Sex – and outlines the specific imbalances that create this void of sexual desire and activity. With practical guidance, self-assessment questions, and stories from her practice and personal life, Resh explains to modern women how to regain their emotional wellness and live a powerful life that includes a steady relationship with pleasure and sexual satisfaction. This book is a must read for all women. From housewives to sophisticated urban corporate types, from new moms to post-menopausal women – this book will help any woman who feels estranged from her sexual energy and a sense of empowerment, and deprived of pleasure, or who views sex as just another thing to tick off her overwhelming to-do list. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Pleasure Hilda Hutcherson, 2006-10-03 Written in the tone of a supportive and savvy friend who just happens to be a top sex expert, this invaluable guide explores: Redefining pleasure: why the quest for female orgasms is overhyped - and how to relax and truly enjoy sex, with or without them Discovering the female body's pleasure zones Communicating with a partner about what feels good (and what doesn't) Exercising and eating to improve your sex life Sex positions 101...and 201 A lifetime of pleasure: great sex after pregnancy, after fifty, and more |
| how to pleasure a woman: Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman Jennifer Berman, Laura Berman, Alice Burdick Schweiger, 2005-04-13 The nation's leading experts on women's sexual health offer up the secrets to female sexual satisfaction using data culled from their groundbreaking new survey Not since The Hite Report twenty-five years ago has female sexuality been so comprehensively addressed and analyzed. In Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman, Drs. Laura and Jennifer Berman topple common misconceptions and reshape conventional wisdom based on their revolutionary and highly anticipated National Women's Sexual Satisfaction Survey. Extrapolating from the study results, the Bermans address the psychological and medical factors that affect sexuality while providing expert, accessible advice on how women can improve their sex lives and enhance sexual pleasure. The Bermans are not afraid to take on topics that make most people blush, and this book is sure to be an essential resource for women throughout the country. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Dr T Tlaleng Mofokeng, 2021-01-18 ‘Dr T’s voice – contemporary and thoroughly African – is vital in a country where too many women are taught to be ashamed of their bodies and their sexual desires, and too many men believe they should shame women.’ – SISONKE MSIMANG The indomitable Dr Tlaleng Mofokeng – affectionately known as Dr T – is passionate about making sexual health and well-being services available to all, regardless of their sexual and gender identities and their economic status. This updated edition of her bestselling book is filled with the specifics of sexual anatomy and health as well as advice and facts about pleasure and sexual rights, and includes additional resources along with new sections on coercive control as well as sex and pleasure during the time of COVID. Dr T, with her typically honest and warm approach, makes the reader feel comfortable reading about topics that are not always discussed freely, providing ALL the information that demystifies sex and sexuality in a way that is entertaining and enlightening. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Why Women Have Sex Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss, 2009-09-29 An unparalleled exploration of the mysteries underlying women's sexuality that rivals the culture-shifting Kinsey Report, from two of America's leading research psychologists Do women have sex simply to reproduce or display their affection? When University of Texas at Austin clinical psychologist Cindy M. Meston and evolutionary psychologist David M. Buss joined forces to investigate the underlying sexual motivations of women, what they found astonished them. Through the voices of real women, Meston and Buss reveal the motivations that guide women's sexual decisions and explain the deep-seated psychology and biology that often unwittingly drive women's desires—sometimes in pursuit of health or pleasure, or sometimes for darker, disturbing reasons that a woman may not fully recognize. Drawing on more than a thousand intensive interviews conducted solely for the book, as well as their pioneering research on physiological response and evolutionary emotions, Why Women Have Sex uncovers an amazingly complex and nuanced portrait of female sexuality. They delve into the use of sex as a defensive tactic against a mate's infidelity (protection), as a ploy to boost self-confidence (status), as a barter for gifts or household chores (resource acquisition), or as a cure for a migraine headache (medication). Why Women Have Sex stands as the richest and deepest psychological understanding of female sexuality yet achieved and promises to inform every woman's (and her partner's) awareness of her relationship to sex and her sexuality. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Women Who Love Sex Gina Ogden, 2007-09-11 Wonderful sex does more than melt both body and soul; it brings power, energy, and deep satisfaction to all aspects of our lives. In this unique book, women who consider themselves highly sexually responsive talk in intimate detail about what gives them the greatest pleasure. They redefine sex—based on how women really experience sexual pleasure—confirming what every woman knows instinctively, while creating a new language that every woman will understand. Based on extensive one-on-one interviews conducted by Dr. Ogden with hundreds of women, this thought-provoking, wise, and unprecedented book transforms how we view sex by giving us new ways to think about sexual pleasure. To learn more about the author, Gina Ogden, go to www.ginaogden.com. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Find Your Pleasure Cynthia Loyst, 2020-01-07 From The Social cohost Cynthia Loyst, a deeply personal lifestyle book about how to take the guilt out of pleasure and get to the heart of what you need and want in all aspects of life—from family, home, and work to love and sex. Find Your Pleasure is a pleasure revolution: where society has told women to feel guilty or ashamed for embracing pleasures, Cynthia Loyst shows you how to get to the heart of what you need and want, in every aspect of life. Live: Uncover the beauty of everyday moments, celebrate family and friends, find fun and satisfaction in your workdays, and enjoy the immense rewards parenting has to offer—all while being mindful of taking care of yourself. Love: Cynthia reveals everything from learning to enjoy your body more, ways to feel intimate and communicate effectively with your partner, and the keys to having better sex. Inspire: Find out how to let your creative self bloom, seek out exciting new pathways in life, and let kindness guide you with Cynthia’s tips and tricks for mastering mindfulness and meditation. Through her insightful anecdotes, Cynthia empowers women to revel in all of life’s joys, even the messy ones. Filled with beautiful color photographs, Find Your Pleasure is a treat for the soul that you can devour in one go or savor in tiny bites. |
| how to pleasure a woman: A Woman's Pleasure J. F. Kelly, 2014-07-24 Follow the sizzling hot, yet romantic and sensually sexual adventures of twenty-five very different men as they encounter their first sexual, most erotic, and most sensual experiences in satisfying the desires of women in A Woman's Pleasure. The erotic adventures of A Woman's Pleasure will carry readers to a new, heightened state of sexual awareness. Each of the many sexual experiences is surrounded by an aura of romance, respect, and mutuality, where both women and men experience total pleasure and complete satisfaction. Making love is not something you do to someone-it's something you share. Women should be equal players in the sexual encounter. They express their sexuality as intensely as men and should also participate as much as men do in driving the lovemaking experience. The real-life sensual, sexual, and lovemaking interactions in these stories will empower women to seek sexual fulfillment and show men how to make love so that women will achieve sexual satisfaction. Men will discover how to give sensual, sexual pleasure to their women and understand that by giving pleasure, they will receive pleasure-which is something that can't be learned from watching porn. At times, these stories make you blush; other times, they'll leave your heart-and other body parts-throbbing. They are sure to stimulate your senses, stir your thoughts, and inspire your fantasies. More importantly, men and women alike will realize what it means to make love and feel unparalleled pleasure. This book will help men and women redefine their lovemaking and sexual expression with each other. No matter what age or stage their relationship is at, they can transform their interaction from what was and what is to what can be. There are no fetishes, kinkiness, or control issues involved-but plenty of romance, love, and caring to enjoy foreplay, satisfaction, and afterglow. Give it to your lover, husband, or wife. Read it together or alone. Keep it by your bedside. You will continually return to certain sexual encounters you especially enjoy many times over. |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Art of Female Pleasure Gabrielle Cerise, 2007-04-01 Want to Really Satisfy a Woman? Then read on...Based on empirical evidence, women in same sex encounters report more pleasure and satisfaction. According to the groundbreaking Shere Hite report on Female Sexuality (described as one of the 100 key books of our time by the Times) 52% of women in the UK ALWAYS orgasm when with a woman!! In Australia and New Zealand that's even higher! 60 % and 61% respectively. Furthermore when asked 'are you curious or would you like to try a sexual relationship with a woman'. . ...71% of UK women said yes! And in Australia and New Zealand its 78% and 80%.Furthermore ancient texts advocate the immense sexual potential of women, in fact in 15AD a spiritual leader in the East declared that when God was giving out sexual desire one tenth went to men, and a whopping nine tenths went to women! Through it all, one truth has remained - women inherently know how to please and satisfy women in a way that, until now, has received little recognition. The Kama Sutra, Ananga Ranga, The Perfumed Garden, and The Tao have all touched upon these areas, but none have fully explored the process and learning to be gained by women who love women.Intense desire, coupled with a not so fulfilling bedroom life, means a tide of sexual frustration sweeping many women!However the situation is not as bleak as it seems. In discussions with numerous bisexual and lesbian women a number of factors have been isolated which may hold the key to bringing pleasure and satisfaction to many women.- Develop a great appreciation of your partners body. Large, small, simply show your appreciation in words or touch, make her feel truly admired. - Facilitate relaxation. In other words take the time to relax the lady in your life - talk, give her a massage, rub her hands, play some music. Remember relaxation precedes arousal - therefore the more relaxed the lady, the greater will be her arousal, and response to your touch.- Increase your foreplay repertoire! For many couples there seem to be degree of focus on two strategic points. By expanding your vision to include often neglected areas such as the neck, back, forehead, eyes, hips, hands - you will be able to provide greater stimulation to her body, and increase arousal. Just make sure you keep this up for at least 20 - 30 minutes to create the desired effect.- Holistic seduction : Vary the stimulation when seducing your love object. Find out her likes and dislikes, interests, hobbies, and talk about them. Make her really feel listened to.. Now use your body language, words, questions, and atmosphere to create the seduction. Your body language should be open and relaxed; your words gentle and pleasing to the mind; the tone of your voice - deep, gentle and steady; slowly steer your line of questioning to sensual topics - i.e. her favorite food, types of massage she likes, the forms of art she admires. This will stimulate her inherent sensuality.- Holistic lovemaking : involve her mind, body and soul. The central idea here is to fundamentally create a sense of connection. By creating this feeling, you will be involving her mind, body and soul in the process, and thereby increase her response to you and her pleasure. Tantric exercise such as simply looking into each other's eyes - creates an intense bond, and fires neurons in the brain responsible for making us feel grounded, protected, and valued. Lye face to face, or sit face to face and simply gaze into each other's eyes. A variation of this is to sit, lie, or stand face to face (with eyes closed and foreheads touching) and simply feel the connection. Once you are familiar with these exercises try co-ordinating your breathing, to create an even greater feeling of connection.- Discover her body, find out her preferences! Is she a G-Spot or clitoral woman? Taylor you positions to give her - her favorite stimulation. As a general rule - positions which stimulate the clitoris are usually face to face, and those tha |
| how to pleasure a woman: Woman Kaz Riley, 2021-06-23 Are you ready to fully embrace your sensual and erotic self? For centuries, women have been taught their sexuality was something to be ashamed of and their sexual pleasure was controlled. This wasn't always the case. Eons ago, a woman's sexuality was celebrated: Aphrodite in Greek mythology, Qetesh from Egypt, the Hindu Goddess Kunti, just to name a few. With this groundbreaking book, you will find the courage to leave fears behind, communicate your wants and desires, and set your own boundaries. You CAN unlock your sexuality and reclaim your right as a woman to enjoy sensual pleasures without being judged. If you want to experience every part of your sexual pleasure without shame and frustration, this book is for you. You will find your power to free yourself from society's antiquated and conflicting expectations of being a sexual woman. Within this book you will discover: How sex education programs in public schools continues to fail young women Your most important erogenous zone (hint: it isn't what you think) The amazing hidden secret to your lifeforce Reject shame and give yourself the power to R.E.C.L.A.I.M. your sexuality Breaking down myths about the big O once and for all Overcome excessive dryness with the G.L.I.D.E. technique How to find your eroticism and why it's essential to desire Why sex can and should be J.U.I.C.Y. How to give yourself permission for pleasure Awakening the G.O.D.D.E.S.S. inside of you How to take control of your sexual pleasure And much more... After reading this book, you will understand and know how to embrace your sexual pleasure. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Women, Pleasure, Film S. Richter, 2013-08-23 The Lola film is a distinct subgenre of the woman's film in which woman's claim to pleasure is entertained without recourse to the figure of the femme fatale. Lola embodies a recognizable set of characteristics through which over time a select group of directors, actors, and audiences have responded in ways that do not succumb to the imperatives of gender. There are over thirty-five Lola films, starting with Marlene Dietrich in The Blue Angel: many are German, others are French, American, British, Italian, and Spanish, but her claim has also resonated in Argentina, China, Egypt, Mexico, Thailand, and the Philippines. Lola can be working class, lesbian, transgender, ethnic, suburban, or any combination. This book examines Lola as a specific and enduring aspect of the early twentieth-century new woman: woman's forthright claim to pleasure on her own terms, liberated, if only as a cinematic fantasy, from the usual constraints of sex and gender. |
| how to pleasure a woman: A Woman's Right to Pleasure Amir Marashi, Erica Jong, 2020-09-10 Iconic and never-before-published works by Georgia O'Keeffe, Louise Bourgeois, Judy Chicago, Tracey Emin, Jenny Holzer, Marlene Dumas and Alice Neel run alongside original essays by New York Times best selling authors Erica Jong and Roxane Gay, and contributions from photographers like Cindy Sherman, Carrie Mae Weems, Marilyn Minter and Nan Goldin, as well as by emerging talent such as Mickalene Thomas, Martine Gutierrez and Harley Weir in this groundbreaking art book that sees the most critical female voices of the last century explore the idea of pleasure -- and empowerment -- in all its forms. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Pleasuring Yvonne K. Fulbright, 2008 Love, romance and intimacy: they're fundamental to the human experience. That's why it's important to maintain a passionate, physical connection. This guide to pleasure helps couples do just that, giving them the power to revitalise their romance and keep the sexual heat turned way up to red-hot. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Tickle Your Fancy Sadie Allison, 2001 Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure professionally and crisply details everything from the basics of getting started with masturbation and sex toys, to advanced tips and techniques for women seeking to improve their self-pleasure. The book includes more than 30 female masturbation techniques, as well as more than 60 diagrams and illustrations. It's tailored for both female readers and curious males. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Girls & Sex Peggy Orenstein, 2016-03-29 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER A Time Top 10 Book of the Year • A San Francisco Chronicle Book of the Year The author of the New York Times bestseller Cinderella Ate My Daughter offers a clear-eyed picture of the new sexual landscape girls face in the post-princess stage—high school through college—and reveals how they are negotiating it. A generation gap has emerged between parents and their girls. Even in this age of helicopter parenting, the mothers and fathers of tomorrow’s women have little idea what their daughters are up to sexually or how they feel about it. Drawing on in-depth interviews with over seventy young women and a wide range of psychologists, academics, and experts, renowned journalist Peggy Orenstein goes where most others fear to tread, pulling back the curtain on the hidden truths, hard lessons, and important possibilities of girls’ sex lives in the modern world. While the media has focused—often to sensational effect—on the rise of casual sex and the prevalence of rape on campus, in Girls and Sex Peggy Orenstein brings much more to the table. She examines the ways in which porn and all its sexual myths have seeped into young people’s lives; what it means to be the “the perfect slut” and why many girls scorn virginity; the complicated terrain of hookup culture and the unfortunate realities surrounding assault. In Orenstein’s hands these issues are never reduced to simplistic “truths;” rather, her powerful reporting opens up a dialogue on a potent, often silent, subtext of American life today—giving readers comprehensive and in-depth information with which to understand, and navigate, this complicated new world. |
| how to pleasure a woman: With Pleasure August McLaughlin, Jamila Dawson, 2021-09-14 A companion for anyone experiencing the effects of trauma, featuring true stories of survivors from a broad, inclusive range of backgrounds With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships is a companion for anyone experiencing the effects of trauma. Through true survivor stories, expert insight, writing prompts, and grounding exercises, it explores pleasure, relationships, and community as worthy and essential antidotes in trying times. Written by trauma-informed sex therapist Jamila Dawson, LMFT, and sexuality journalist and podcaster August McLaughlin, With Pleasure provides a much-needed alternative to harmful self-help ideologies that instruct people to change their thoughts or choose to be happy. Instead, Dawson and McLaughlin encourage readers to respect their feelings, understand the complexities of a society and systems that fuel trauma, foster self-compassion, and embrace pleasure. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Shopping for Pleasure Erika Rappaport, 2021-06-08 In Shopping for Pleasure, Erika Rappaport reconstructs London's Victorian and Edwardian West End as an entertainment and retail center. In this neighborhood of stately homes, royal palaces, and spacious parks and squares, a dramatic transformation unfolded that ultimately changed the meaning of femininity and the lives of women, shaping their experience of modernity. Rappaport illuminates the various forces of the period that encouraged and discouraged women's enjoyment of public life and particularly shows how shopping came to be seen as the quintessential leisure activity for middle- and upper-class women. Through extensive histories of department stores, women's magazines, clubs, teashops, restaurants, and the theater as interwoven sites of consumption, Shopping for Pleasure uncovers how a new female urban culture emerged before and after the turn of the twentieth century. Moving beyond the question of whether shopping promoted or limited women's freedom, the author draws on diverse sources to explore how business practices, legal decisions, and cultural changes affected women in the market. In particular, she focuses on how and why stores presented themselves as pleasurable, secure places for the urban woman, in some cases defining themselves as instrumental to civic improvement and women's emancipation. Rappaport also considers such influences as merchandizing strategies, credit policies, changes in public transportation, feminism, and the financial balance of power within the home. Shopping for Pleasure is thus both a social and cultural history of the West End, but on a broader scale it reveals the essential interplay between the rise of consumer society, the birth of modern femininity, and the making of contemporary London. |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Clitoral Truth Rebecca Chalker, 2011-01-04 The clitoris has been dismissed, undervalued, unexplored, and misunderstood for hundreds of years, but the truth is out there, and internationally celebrated sex educator Rebecca Chalker has found it. In The Clitoral Truth, Chalker offers the only mainstream, in-depth exploration devoted solely to women's genital anatomy and sexual response. Women readers everywhere--be they straight, gay, or bisexual--will learn about the countless sexual sensations and discover how to enhance their sexual responses in a more concrete way than ever before. Enhanced with personal accounts, comprehensive illustrations, and a thorough appendix of female sexuality resources, this book helps women and their partners understand and expand their sexual potential and work toward becoming independent sexual beings. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Real Sex for Real Women Laura Berman, 2011-08-03 This innovative look at intimacy helps you to enjoy great sex in your everyday life. By helping the reader connect with her own sexuality, this book teaches women how to find sexual fulfillment by looking at physical and emotional health, and how she feels about herself and sex. Showing how it's possible to combine the reality of everyday life with fantastic sex, renowned sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author Dr. Laura Berman puts sex at the top of the to do list, and takes the reader on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure-seeking to a life full of attainable, enjoyable sex. Sex in real life is not the sex we see in the media, and this book's images and advice reflect life and sex naturally. Dr. Laura provides information on techniques and tips on how to maximize your sex life, including how to express your needs and explore new positions. This approachable, no-nonsense handbook give you everything you need to know about sex in relationships, sex on the go, and most importantly, the sex that is right for you! |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Right to Sex Amia Srinivasan, 2021-08-19 A SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER BLACKWELL'S BOOK OF THE YEAR 2021 Essential lessons on the world we live in, from one of our greatest young thinkers – a guide to what everybody is talking about today 'Unparalleled and extraordinary . . . A bracing revivification of a crucial lineage in feminist writing' JIA TOLENTINO 'I believe Amia Srinivasan's work will change the world' KATHERINE RUNDELL 'Rigorously researched, but written with such spark and verve. The best non-fiction book I have read this year' PANDORA SYKES ------------------------- How should we talk about sex? It is a thing we have and also a thing we do; a supposedly private act laden with public meaning; a personal preference shaped by outside forces; a place where pleasure and ethics can pull wildly apart. To grasp sex in all its complexity – its deep ambivalences, its relationship to gender, class, race and power – we need to move beyond 'yes and no', wanted and unwanted. We need to rethink sex as a political phenomenon. Searching, trenchant and extraordinarily original, The Right to Sex is a landmark examination of the politics and ethics of sex in this world, animated by the hope of a different one. SHORTLISTED FOR THE ORWELL PRIZE 2022 LONGLISTED FOR THE POLARI FIRST BOOK PRIZE 2022 LONGLISTED FOR THE BRITISH ACADEMY BOOK PRIZE 2022 |
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| how to pleasure a woman: Don't Hold My Head Down Lucy-Anne Holmes, 2019-02 Don't Hold My Head Down is a memoir about sex. It starts with the author having a disappointing, drunken wank to internet porn, and ends with her having day-long orgasms and taking on the most powerful newspaper in the country. In her mid-thirties, Lucy-Anne Holmes realised that something was missing. When it came to sex she still felt like a novice: she lacked confidence and felt incapable of asking for what she wanted. But when she looked for a how-to guide or a workshop, she found that everything she googled was geared towards the male gaze rather than women's pleasure. So, she made a 'fuckit list' of the things she'd like to try - among them slow sex, ejaculation, different types of orgasm, being sexual with other women, BDSM, sex parties and making porn - and set out on a journey of discovery. This is the book that Lucy wanted to read in the first place; a frank, eye-opening and inspiring account of the search for better sex that shares her tips, revelations, failures and triumphs. |
| how to pleasure a woman: How to Make Love to a Woman Michael Morgenstern, Steven Naifeh, Gregory White Smith, 1989-01-05 Michael Morgenstern asked women all over the country, from all walks of life, and discovered the answers men seek. Learn what women find sexy in a man; how to seduce with words; what is the secret all great lovers know about pleasing women; how you can tell from a woman's kiss if she wants you take her to bed, and much more. Will make life--sex life, anyway--easier for men and infinitely more pleasurable for women. COSMOPOLITAN From the Paperback edition. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Drive Him Wild Katy Bevan, 2014-01-07 This guide is for women who want to increase the pleasure they can give to their partners. It is packed with witty yet practical advice about how to make love to your man. This little book gives you enough ideas and information to take the reins in your relationship with panache. Let¿s face it, sex can get repetitive in the long term, so there are loads of new ideas for making your sex life more exciting, including innovative positions that will increase the enjoyment for you, and your partner.With inspiration from the Kama Sutra and the secret that made Cleopatra such a celebrated lover, to the proper way to put on a condom, there are plenty of hot tips for any woman.With over 100 inspirational photographs illustrating sensual massage, sex toys and more, this book will help you become a confident and sensitive lover. |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus Violet Blue, 2010-11-01 The complete self-help book on cunnilingus for everyone who would like to enjoy cunnilingus—women and men! Sex educator Violet Blue tells you all you need to know to give and receive exquisite oral pleasure: * For all women—heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual—and men who desire hot oral encounters * How to introduce cunnilingus into your sexual repertoire * How to negotiate oral sex with a reluctant partner * Clear, illustrated guide to women's anatomy * Helpful tips on preparation and hygiene—including shaving and waxing * Building trust and talking about your desires * Advanced positions and techniques * Toys, games, fantasy and power play * Complete guide to helpful resources—videos, books, and websites * Plus, explicit stories of women enjoying cunnilingus by best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Book of the Orgasm Tara Barker, 1997 It's fun, it's frank, and it's packed with information about how an orgasm works, what women wish men knew about the female orgasm and how to make your orgasms bigger, better and more satisfying. What makes this book unique is that it includes the stories of real women and not just tips from sex experts. Throughout, women talk candidly about how they reach orgasm, what works for them (and what doesn't) and describe in detail their own sexual responses. And what they have to say may surprise you! Other hot topics include: , The best positions for female orgasm , How to find that elusive G-spot and the newest pleasure zone, the A-spot , Ways to increase your and your partner's excitement , Intimate exercises to give you the ultimate orgasm , Seven crucial steps to joyful orgasmic sex Perfect for the nightstand or for slipping into an overnight bag, The Book of the Orgasm allows women -- and men -- to explore the ultimate sexual pleasure! |
| how to pleasure a woman: Becoming Cliterate Dr. Laurie Mintz, 2017-06-06 We’ve been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don’t orgasm this way. We’ve separated our most reliable route to orgasm—clitoral stimulation—from how we feel we should orgasm—penetration. As a result, we’ve created a pleasure gap between women and men: 50% of 18-35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner 64% of women vs 91% of men said they had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter 55% of men vs. 4% of women say they usually reach orgasm during first-time hookup sex In Becoming Cliterate, psychology professor and human sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz exposes the broader cultural problem that’s perpetuating this gap, and what we can do about it. Pulling together evidence from biology, sociology, linguistics, and sex therapy into one comprehensive, accessible, and prescriptive book, Becoming Cliterate features: Cultural & historical analysis of female orgasm (spoiler: the problem’s been going on for ages) An anatomy section (it’s all custom under the hood) Proven techniques for cliterate sex (it starts with training the sex organ between your ears) A comprehensive final chapter for men (because you don’t have to have a clitoris to be cliterate) By dispelling the lies, misunderstandings, and myths that have been holding us back, Becoming Cliterate tackles both personal and political problems and replaces them with updated outlooks and practical skills needed to change our collective perspective on sex. It’s time to finally inform women and men on how to have satisfying experiences in bed that benefit both parties. The revolution is cuming—and Becoming Cliterate offers a radical, simple solution to progress and pleasure for all. |
| how to pleasure a woman: More Than Two Franklin Veaux, Eve Rickert, Janet W. Hardy, 2014 A long-awaited, wide-ranging resource exploring the often-complex world of living polyamorously. |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana Mallanaga Vatsyayana, 2021-04-15 The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana by Vatsyayana The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian Hindu text widely considered to be the standard work on human sexual behavior in Sanskrit literature written by Vātsyāyana. A portion of the work consists of practical advice on sexual intercourse. It is largely in prose, with many inserted anustubh poetry verses. Kāma which is one of the four goals of Hindu life, means desire including sexual desire the latter being the subject of the textbook, and sūtra literally means a thread or line that holds things together, and more metaphorically refers to an aphorism or a collection of such aphorisms in the form of a manual. Contrary to popular perception, especially in the western world, the Kama Sutra is not exclusively a sex manual; it presents itself as a guide to a virtuous and gracious living that discusses the nature of love, family life, and other aspects pertaining to pleasure-oriented faculties of human life. The Kama Sutra does reveal that Vatsyayana lived the life of a religious student, likely in Benares, and spent his time engaged in the contemplation of the highest Deity. Scholars believe that the tone Vatsyayana takes towards youth in the Kama Sutra suggests that he likely spent many years studying religion before beginning his life's work compiling the wisdom of the sages. Indeed, Vatsyayana was less of a groundbreaking philosopher and apparently more of a diligent academician. Besides transcribing the Kama Sutra more than 300 years after the Shastras had already been passed down, he also transcribed the Nyaya Sutras, an ancient Indian text of philosophy that was composed by the buddha Gotama in the 2nd century B.C. Whereas the Kama Sutra tackles kama (or sensual pleasures), the Nyaya Sutra delineates paths for achieving moksha, or spiritual liberation from the cycle of birth and death. |
| how to pleasure a woman: How to Please A Woman Jeff Gainey, 2004 How To Please A Woman instructs all men about how to understand, appreciate & communicate with women, how to meet their needs & how to make them happy. It applies to single and married men alike - & also to women; to understand themselves better & what they should expect. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Bad Boys Guide Hanna Shiman, 2020-09-22 You're going to learn exactly how to make your woman scream and shake with intense sexual pleasure and become the only man that can fulfill her deepest fantasies. In this introduction, I'll outline everything you need to know before showing you the exact step-by-step techniques you should be using on your girl to please her sexually. Becoming the best lover that she has ever had is surprisingly easy IF you can put your ego aside and follow the 3 Steps, that I explain below. They are: Step 1 - Learn How To Turn Her On By Removing The Brakes To Her Sex Drive - In Step 1 you'll learn how to remove the obstacles that act as Brakes to her sex drive and getting turned on. Once you remove these Brakes, she will be shocked at how easily she gets aroused. Step 2 - Learn How To Make Her Crazy Horny By Amplifying The Accelerators To Her Sex Drive - Step 2 is all about making her aroused and horny by using the right kind of foreplay so she will beg you for sex and you can start to please her sexually. Important: Effective foreplay for women is very different than the foreplay that makes men horny. Step 3 - The 73 Techniques That Will Make Her Scream & Cry With Pleasure - Step 3 comprises four separate guides. These are the essential skills you need to please a woman. You'll learn how to eat her pussy, how to make her squirt, how to finger your girl for maximum pleasure and all my secret techniques to make her orgasm harder than ever before. |
| how to pleasure a woman: How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You Tatiana Busan, 2025-05-04 You try to win her over, but she looks at you and tells you that you're her best friend. At first, she may have been attracted to you and wanted to get to know you better, but at some point you took a wrong turn that led you into the friend zone. When you find yourself being rejected, it's hard to continue feeling enthusiastic about that woman. Just because a woman isn't interested in you or attracted to you at first doesn't mean she won't fall in love with you in the future. To convince a woman that you are the right man for her, you cannot use logic; what you need to do is change your approach. When it comes to making a girl who seems uninterested fall in love with you, logic does not work; she has to feel an attraction that she cannot explain with logic. If you want a woman to fall in love with you, you need to understand what makes her feel that way and provoke that kind of feeling in her. You need to understand what makes a girl fall in love with you, so that your actions bring her closer to you instead of pushing her away. Every man wants to have that secret ingredient that would make any woman fall madly in love with him. But sometimes it's an impossible mission, because the woman you want isn't interested in you. To help you, in this book I will reveal techniques, methods, and strategies to make a woman fall in love with you. Whether you are already in a relationship with her or are still in the seduction phase, you need to use the right methods to get into her mind and heart! Most men don't understand how a woman falls in love and what it takes to connect with her emotionally. In this book, I will reveal the secrets to winning a woman's heart and how to create an emotional bond with her. Follow these techniques and you'll see how easy and fun it can be to make a girl fall in love with you! When a girl is indecisive, confused, doesn't know what she wants, and has doubts and fears about the relationship, there are steps you can take. Instead of making mistakes and pushing her away, it's better to use effective methods that will help you turn an indifferent woman into a woman in love! In this book, you'll discover the right techniques and strategies to make a woman fall in love with you. Here's what you'll find in the book: • How to Deal with a Girl Who Is Indecisive, Confused, and Doesn't Know What She Wants • How to Tell if You're More Than a Friend to a Girl • When Is It Worth Trying to Win a Woman Over? • How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You When She Only Sees You as a Friend • How to Turn a Friendship into Attraction • How to Build a Strong Seduction • How to Attract a Girl Who Doesn't Return Your Interest • How to Win Over a Girl Who Seems Indifferent • How to Attract a Woman Without Seeming Too Pushy and Available • How to Win Over a Woman Who Plays Hard to Get • How to Make a Woman Dependent on You • How to Make a Girl Fall in Love with You When She’s Confused, Indecisive, and Doesn’t Know What She Wants • 15 Reasons Why Women Fall Out of Love • How a Woman Falls in Love • 8 Things a Woman Needs to Fall in Love • How Long Does It Take for You to Fall in Love? • How Does a Woman Behave When She’s in Love? • 6 Mistakes That Prevent a Woman from Falling in Love • Tips for Taking Control During the Seduction Phase • How to Make a Woman Jealous, to Increase Attraction • Why Is a Woman Emotionally Unavailable? • Love Shouldn’t Make You Suffer! • How to Flirt with a Woman via Text • What Makes a Man More Attractive • What Do Women Want to Fall in Love? • How to Create an Emotional Connection with a Woman • Discover the Mistakes That a Man in Love Makes • How to Make a Woman Want Only You • How to Show a Woman That You’re the Right Man for Her |
| how to pleasure a woman: The Sex & Pleasure Book Carol Queen, Shar Rednour, 2015 |
| how to pleasure a woman: Fahrenheit 451 Ray Bradbury, 1993 A book burner in a future fascist state finds out books are a vital part of a culture he never knew. He clandestinely pursues reading, until he is betrayed. |
| how to pleasure a woman: Audaciously Alive Roxanne Harris, 2023-01-03 In Audaciously Alive: Choosing to Live Well on Purpose, Roxanne Harris helps readers see where they are in their own struggle with autoimmune or chronic disease—and the pitfalls, confusion, and torment that goes with it—to find the path back to freedom and true living. After a devastating diagnosis of an autoimmune disease, ankylosing spondylitis, just two weeks after the birth of her fourth child, Roxanne Harris refused to submit to life in a wheelchair and began the fight of her life—to create beauty from the ashes of disease, broken relationships, and the crippling of her body. In Audaciously Alive, she shares her pain, the many trials she faced, and her most audacious moments of standing firm and not giving up. She highlights keys to living well and gives insight and wisdom so that you can better see the traps and speed bumps that could derail you in your own path to recovery. Packed with practical tools, Roxanne will help you turn the freight train of your health and life around and get back on track physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. You no longer have to live in panic, confusion, or fear after a diagnosis. Instead, you can choose to be audacious and live on purpose every day. Say “no” to sickness and the label of disease and choose to live audaciously. |
| how to pleasure a woman: How to Do Things with Pornography Nancy Bauer, 2015-04-06 In Nancy Bauer’s view, most feminist philosophers are content to work within theoretical frameworks that are false to human beings’ everyday experiences. Here she models a new way to write about pornography, women’s self-objectification, hook-up culture, and other contemporary phenomena, and in doing so she raises basic questions about philosophy. |
Pleasure - Wikipedia
Pleasure is experience that feels good, that involves the enjoyment of something. [1] [2] It contrasts with pain or suffering, which are forms of feeling bad. [3] It is closely related to value, …
PLEASURE Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster
The meaning of PLEASURE is desire, inclination. How to use pleasure in a sentence.
PLEASURE | English meaning - Cambridge Dictionary
PLEASURE definition: 1. enjoyment, happiness, or satisfaction, or something that gives this: 2. enjoyment, happiness…. Learn more.
PLEASURE Definition & Meaning | Dictionary.com
Pleasure, enjoyment, delight, joy refer to the feeling of being pleased and happy. Pleasure is the general term: to take pleasure in beautiful scenery. Enjoyment is a quiet sense of well-being …
PLEASURE definition and meaning | Collins English Dictionary
A pleasure is an activity, experience, or aspect of something that you find very enjoyable or satisfying. Watching TV is our only pleasure. ...the pleasure of seeing a smiling face.
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1. enjoyment or satisfaction derived from something that is to one's liking; gratification; delight. 2. a cause or source of enjoyment or delight: It was a pleasure to see you. 3. worldly or frivolous …
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Feb 19, 2025 · pleasure (countable and uncountable, plural pleasures) (uncountable) A state of being pleased or contented; gratification. He remembered with pleasure his home and family. I …
Pleasure - Definition, Meaning & Synonyms - Vocabulary.com
Pleasure is a general term for good feelings. People get pleasure from eating, sleeping, watching TV, or anything else they enjoy. Pleasure is the opposite of pain.
pleasure noun - Definition, pictures, pronunciation and usage ...
Definition of pleasure noun from the Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary. [uncountable] a state of feeling or being happy or satisfied synonym enjoyment. His eyes lit up with pleasure. for …
What does pleasure mean? - Definitions.net
What is your pleasure, coffee or tea? Johnny pleasured Jackie orally last night. Etymology: plaisir, French. 1. Delight; gratification of the mind or senses. Pleasure, in general, is the consequent …
Pleasure - Wikipedia
Pleasure is experience that feels good, that involves the enjoyment of something. [1] [2] It contrasts with pain or suffering, which are forms of feeling bad. [3] It is closely related to value, …
PLEASURE Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster
The meaning of PLEASURE is desire, inclination. How to use pleasure in a sentence.
PLEASURE | English meaning - Cambridge Dictionary
PLEASURE definition: 1. enjoyment, happiness, or satisfaction, or something that gives this: 2. enjoyment, happiness…. Learn more.
PLEASURE Definition & Meaning | Dictionary.com
Pleasure, enjoyment, delight, joy refer to the feeling of being pleased and happy. Pleasure is the general term: to take pleasure in beautiful scenery. Enjoyment is a quiet sense of well-being …
PLEASURE definition and meaning | Collins English Dictionary
A pleasure is an activity, experience, or aspect of something that you find very enjoyable or satisfying. Watching TV is our only pleasure. ...the pleasure of seeing a smiling face.
Pleasure - definition of pleasure by ... - The Free Dictionary
1. enjoyment or satisfaction derived from something that is to one's liking; gratification; delight. 2. a cause or source of enjoyment or delight: It was a pleasure to see you. 3. worldly or frivolous …
pleasure - Wiktionary, the free dictionary
Feb 19, 2025 · pleasure (countable and uncountable, plural pleasures) (uncountable) A state of being pleased or contented; gratification. He remembered with pleasure his home and family. I …
Pleasure - Definition, Meaning & Synonyms - Vocabulary.com
Pleasure is a general term for good feelings. People get pleasure from eating, sleeping, watching TV, or anything else they enjoy. Pleasure is the opposite of pain.
pleasure noun - Definition, pictures, pronunciation and usage ...
Definition of pleasure noun from the Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary. [uncountable] a state of feeling or being happy or satisfied synonym enjoyment. His eyes lit up with pleasure. for …
What does pleasure mean? - Definitions.net
What is your pleasure, coffee or tea? Johnny pleasured Jackie orally last night. Etymology: plaisir, French. 1. Delight; gratification of the mind or senses. Pleasure, in general, is the consequent …
