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bpd and love addiction: The Science of Evil Simon Baron-Cohen, 2012-09-04 A groundbreaking and challenging examination of the social, cognitive, neurological, and biological roots of psychopathy, cruelty, and evil Borderline personality disorder, autism, narcissism, psychosis: All of these syndromes have one thing in common--lack of empathy. In some cases, this absence can be dangerous, but in others it can simply mean a different way of seeing the world.In The Science of Evil Simon Baron-Cohen, an award-winning British researcher who has investigated psychology and autism for decades, develops a new brain-based theory of human cruelty. A true psychologist, however, he examines social and environmental factors that can erode empathy, including neglect and abuse. Based largely on Baron-Cohen's own research, The Science of Evil will change the way we understand and treat human cruelty. |
bpd and love addiction: You Will Get Through This: A Mental Health Tool Kit - Help for Depression, Anxiety, Grief, and More Julie Radico, Charity O’Reilly, Nicole Helverson, 2024-07-02 An all-in-one guide to taking charge of your mental health, with research-proven strategies to alleviate daily struggles such as depression, anxiety, panic disorder, ADHD, and insomnia “This helpful book is filled with research and practical approaches for coping with a wide variety of mental health conditions. . . . A great resource for families.”—Ken Duckworth, MD, chief medical officer of the National Alliance on Mental Illness and author of You Are Not Alone: The NAMI Guide to Navigating Mental Health Months-long therapy wait-lists. Out-of-pocket costs. Online misinformation. There are more barriers than ever to accessing reliable mental health care—and when your mental health is suffering, you need help now. This book, written by three practicing therapists, is your comprehensive mental health tool kit. Drawing on the techniques they use with their clients, they offer a holistic understanding of more than twenty all-too-common life challenges, plus compassionate, evidence-based strategies for when you’re struggling. Even better, these are techniques that anyone can do at home. In each chapter, you’ll find: what the research says about the issue coping mechanisms that are used in actual therapy rooms step-by-step guidance on using these strategies in real life and overcoming common obstacles tips for communicating about the issue with your loved ones You’ll also find practical advice on accessing professional help, deciding if a therapist is the right fit for you (and breaking up with them if they’re not), and paying for therapy. You Will Get Through This illuminates the road to wellness so you can take charge of your own healing. |
bpd and love addiction: Confusing Love With Obsession John D Moore, 2010-08-04 A must-read book for anyone involved in a dangerously obsessive relationship. Confusing Love with Obsession is a must-read for anyone involved in a dangerously obsessive relationship. Fueled by an overwhelming fear of abandonment, people involved in obsessive relationships will go to extreme lengths to control their partner. Here, John D. Moore draws from excruciating real-life stories and personal experience to reveal the inner workings of obsessive relationships. More important, Confusing Love with Obsession helps readers develop a new self-awareness and healthy relationship--free from preoccupation with an object of obsession. |
bpd and love addiction: Stop Walking on Eggshells Paul T. Mason, Randi Kreger, 2010 Discusses the signs and symptoms of borderline personality disorder and explains how the families and friends of patients can cope with BPD behavior while taking care of themselves. |
bpd and love addiction: Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder Shari Y. Manning, 2011-06-28 A guide for people in relationships with someone who has borderline personality disorder, helping to understand BPD emotions and how to respond to them. |
bpd and love addiction: Hard to Love Joseph Nowinski, 2014-05-13 Renowned clinical psychologist Joseph Nowinski provides easy-to-implement solutions for BPD men and those who love them. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) occurs commonly in both men and women, but is frequently misdiagnosed in men, resulting in either no treatment (or worse, jail time) or the wrong treatment. Dr. Nowinski lays out the origins of BPD in men and helps a man determine if BPD describes the problems in living he's experienced, and if so, how to fix them. Hard to Love provides easy-to-implement solutions for BPD men and those who love them. Joseph Nowinski, PhD, is a clinical psychologist in private practice and the author of numerous books. His most recent books include Saying Goodbye: A Guide to Coping with a Loved One's Terminal Illness and Almost Alcoholic: Is My (Or My Loved One's) Drinking a Problem? |
bpd and love addiction: The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder Randi Kreger, 2009-06-03 Gentle counsel and realistic advice for families contending with one of today's most misunderstood forms of mental illness. For family members of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), home life is routinely unpredictable and frequently unbearable. Extreme mood swings, impulsive behaviors, unfair blaming and criticism, and suicidal tendencies--common conduct among those who suffer from the disorder--leave family members feeling confused, hurt, and helpless. In Stop Walking on Eggshells, Randi Kreger's pioneering first book which sold more than 340,000 copies, she and co-author Paul T. Mason outlined the fundamental differences in the way that people with BPD relate to the world. Now, with The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder, Kreger takes readers to the next level by offering them five straightforward tools to organize their thinking, learn specific skills, and focus on what they need to do to get off the emotional rollercoaster: (1) Take care of yourself; (2) Uncover what keeps you feeling stuck; (3) Communicate to be heard; (4) Set limits with love; and (5) Reinforce the right behaviors. Together the steps provide a clear-cut system designed to help friends and family reduce stress, improve their relationship with their borderline loved one, improve their problem-solving skills and minimize conflict, and feel more self-assured about setting limits. |
bpd and love addiction: Clinical Management of Sex Addiction Patrick J. Carnes, Kenneth M. Adams, 2019-11-28 Clinical Management of Sex Addiction’s newest edition updates many of the original chapters from 28 leaders in the field with new findings and treatment methods in the field of sex addiction. With a growing awareness of sex addiction as a problem, plus the advent of cybersex compulsion, professional clinicians are being confronted with sexual compulsion with little clinical or academic preparation. This is the first book distilling the experience of the leaders in this emerging field. It additionally provides new chapters on emerging areas of interest, including partner counseling, trauma and sexual addiction, and adolescent sex addiction. With a focus on special populations, the book creates a current and coherent reference for the therapist who faces quickly escalating new constellations of addictive sexual behavior. Readable, concise and filled with useful interventions, it is a key text for professionals new to the field and a classic reference for all clinicians who treat sex addiction. |
bpd and love addiction: The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide Alexander Chapman, Kim Gratz, 2007-12-01 If you or someone you love is struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you need up-to-date, accurate, and accessible information on the problems you’re facing and where you can turn for help. But where do you look? Much of the professional literature on BPD is too technical and confusing to be of much help. And searching the Internet for accurate information can be treacherous, with some sites providing useful information and others giving dangerous advice and misinformation. If you’re living with BPD, this compassionate book offers what you really need: an easy-to-follow road map to guide you through this disorder and its treatment. This book provides answers to many of the questions you might have about BPD: What is BPD? How long does it last? What other problems co-occur with BPD? Overviews of what we currently know about BPD make up the first section of the book. Later chapters cover several common treatment approaches to BPD: DBT, mentalization-based treatment (MBT), and medication treatments. In the last sections of the book, you’ll learn a range of useful coping skills that can help you manage your emotions, deal with suicidal thoughts, and cope with some of the most distressing symptoms of BPD. This book has been awarded The Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies Self-Help Seal of Merit — an award bestowed on outstanding self-help books that are consistent with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles and that incorporate scientifically tested strategies for overcoming mental health difficulties. Used alone or in conjunction with therapy, our books offer powerful tools readers can use to jump-start changes in their lives. |
bpd and love addiction: The Buddha and the Borderline Kiera Van Gelder, 2010-08-01 Kiera Van Gelder's first suicide attempt at the age of twelve marked the onset of her struggles with drug addiction, depression, post-traumatic stress, self-harm, and chaotic romantic relationships-all of which eventually led to doctors' belated diagnosis of borderline personality disorder twenty years later. The Buddha and the Borderline is a window into this mysterious and debilitating condition, an unblinking portrayal of one woman's fight against the emotional devastation of borderline personality disorder. This haunting, intimate memoir chronicles both the devastating period that led to Kiera's eventual diagnosis and her inspirational recovery through therapy, Buddhist spirituality, and a few online dates gone wrong. Kiera's story sheds light on the private struggle to transform suffering into compassion for herself and others, and is essential reading for all seeking to understand what it truly means to recover and reclaim the desire to live. |
bpd and love addiction: A Clinical Guide to Treating Behavioral Addictions Amanda L. Giordano, PhD, LPC, 2021-06-22 Giordano, an established scholar in behavioral addictions, has provided a landmark clinical reference book. This text provides the quintessential guide to understanding process addictions with detailed attention to assessment and treatment that is unparalleled in the literature. This is a must-have book for every clinician. - Craig S. Cashwell, Ph.D., LPC, NCC, ACS, CSAT-S, Professor, William & Mary ”This groundbreaking text, A Clinical Guide to Treating Behavioral Addictions, is a must-read for counselors and educators alike. As a former addictions counselor, now counselor educator, I found the information in this text timely, relevant, and instrumental to the work of treating persons with behavioral addictions. This go-to resource will prove to be invaluable for years to come!” --Michael K. Schmit, PhD, LPC, Hazelden Betty Ford Graduate School of Addiction Studies An innovative new text addressing 11 behavioral addictions in detail with a focus on recent neuroscience. This practical, approachable guide for clinicians comprehensively covers an array of behavioral addictions ranging from internet gaming addiction and sex addiction, to social media addiction and food addiction. Each chapter answers foundational questions to inform clinical practice including: How do I conceptualize it?, How do I identify it?, How do I assess it?, How do I treat it?, and How do I learn more? &Through this innovative resource, clinicians will gain valuable knowledge regarding the conceptualization, identification, assessment, and treatment of behavioral addictions. Each chapter highlights the most current research related to specific behavioral addictions, provides a synthesis of recent neuroscience, and examines diverse treatment approaches to fit the widest range of clinical styles. In addition, this book describes the evolving definition of addiction, provides examples of how to advocate for clients with behavioral addictions, and devotes an entire chapter to understanding the neuroscience of addiction. This clinical reference book will help counselors provide compassionate, effective services to clients with a variety of behavioral addictions. Purchase includes digital access for use on most mobile devices or computers. Key Features: Offers “Voices from the Field” sections in which clinicians describe their experiences working with each behavioral addiction Includes a chapter completely devoted to the neuroscience of addiction in addition to a synthesis of recent neuroscience in each chapter Synthesizes current research to aid in clinical conceptualizations Describes useful assessment instruments and how to access them Presents a wide range of treatment approaches and 12-step program options Provides abundant resources for further study |
bpd and love addiction: Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide: Cure Your Codependent & Narcissist Personality Disorder and Relationships! Follow The Ultimate User Manual for Healing Narcissism & Codependence NOW! Victoria Hoffman, Break Free from Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse: Reclaim Your Life and Empower Yourself! Are you struggling with codependent behaviors or trapped in a toxic relationship with a narcissist? Do you feel emotionally drained, constantly trying to rescue others, or find yourself in one-sided relationships? If you're looking for a way to break free and reclaim your life, this comprehensive guide offers the ultimate path to healing and empowerment. The Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide is your essential tool to help you understand and overcome the destructive patterns of codependency and narcissistic abuse. This guide is designed to give you practical steps to rebuild your self-confidence, regain control of your emotions, and create fulfilling, healthy relationships. Whether you've been emotionally dependent or entangled in a narcissistic relationship, this book will guide you through the healing process with proven strategies for long-term recovery. In this Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide, you'll discover: - Practical ways to overcome stress and anxiety caused by toxic relationships. - Steps to develop a life filled with empowerment, confidence, and peace. - How to improve your relationships and professional life by prioritizing yourself. - Methods to focus on self-care and personal growth without feeling guilty. This guide simplifies the complex recovery process with easy-to-follow advice, allowing you to make the positive changes needed to transform your life. The tools and techniques in this book will help you break the cycle of codependency and heal from narcissistic abuse, giving you the freedom to live authentically and confidently. If you're ready to take back control, overcome the fear of the unknown, and build the life you deserve, this book is the ultimate solution. Don’t wait—start your healing journey today! For Fans Of: - The Human Magnet Syndrome by Ross Rosenberg - Healing from Hidden Abuse by Shannon Thomas - Disarming the Narcissist by Wendy T. Behary If you found comfort and inspiration in these books, you’ll love the Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide. Packed with transformative insights, this book is perfect for anyone looking to break free from toxic cycles and embrace a life of self-confidence, healing, and peace. Start your recovery today with the Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide—the ultimate resource for anyone ready to escape the grip of codependency and narcissistic abuse! |
bpd and love addiction: Stop Walking on Eggshells Paul T. T. Mason, Randi Kreger, 2020-12-01 Isn’t it time you stopped walking on eggshells? Learn how with this fully revised and updated third edition of a self-help classic—now with more than one million copies sold! Do you feel manipulated, controlled, or lied to? Are you the focus of intense, violent, and irrational rages? Do you feel you are ‘walking on eggshells’ to avoid the next confrontation? If the answer is ‘yes,’ someone you care about may have borderline personality disorder (BPD)—a mood disorder that causes negative self-image, emotional instability, and difficulty with interpersonal relationships. Stop Walking on Eggshells has already helped more than a million people with friends and family members suffering from BPD understand this difficult disorder, set boundaries, and help their loved ones stop relying on dangerous BPD behaviors. This fully revised third edition has been updated with the very latest BPD research on comorbidity, extensive new information about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), the effectiveness of schema therapy, and coping and communication skills you can use to stabilize your relationship with the BPD or NPD sufferer in your life. This compassionate guide will enable you to: Make sense out of the chaos Stand up for yourself and assert your needs Defuse arguments and conflicts Protect yourself and others from violent behavior If you’re ready to bring peace and stability back into your life, this time-tested guide will show you how, one confident step at a time. |
bpd and love addiction: Borderline Personality Disorder Camh, 2009 This booklet is designed for people who have someone in their lives who has borderline personality disorder (BPD). The first three sections include information about the symptoms and causes and treatment of BPD. Section four talks about how to support someone who has BPD and the last section discusses self-care for family and friends. Contents: - about personality disorders - about borderline personality disorder - treatment for people with BPD - supporting the family member who has BPD - self-care - recovery and hope - family crisis information sheet. |
bpd and love addiction: The Addicted Brain Michael Kuhar, 2011-10-31 Addiction destroys lives. In The Addicted Brain, leading neuroscientist Michael Kuhar, Ph.D., explains how and why this happens–and presents advances in drug addiction treatment and prevention. Using breathtaking brain imagery and other research, Kuhar shows the powerful, long-term brain changes that drugs can cause, revealing why it can be so difficult for addicts to escape their grip. Discover why some people are far more susceptible to addiction than others as the author illuminates striking neural similarities between drugs and other pleasures potentially capable of causing abuse or addiction–including alcohol, gambling, sex, caffeine, and even Internet overuse. Kuhar concludes by outlining the 12 characteristics most often associated with successful drug addiction treatment. Authoritative and easy to understand, The Addicted Brain offers today’s most up-to-date scientific explanation of addiction–and what addicts, their families, and society can do about it. |
bpd and love addiction: I Hate You-- Don't Leave Me Jerold Jay Kreisman, Hal Straus, 2010 Revised and updated, the classic guide to understanding borderline personality disorder includes the latest research on the neurobiological, genetic and developmental roots of the disorder as well as connections with substance abuse, PTSD, ADHD and eating disorders. Original. |
bpd and love addiction: Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder Valerie Porr, M.A., 2010-07-30 Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is characterized by unstable moods, negative self-image, dangerous impulsivity, and tumultuous relationships. Many people with BPD excel in academics and careers while revealing erratic, self-destructive, and sometimes violent behavior only to those with whom they are intimate. Others have trouble simply holding down a job or staying in school. Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder is a compassionate and informative guide to understanding this profoundly unsettling--and widely misunderstood--mental illness, believed to affect approximately 6% of the general population. Rather than viewing people with BPD as manipulative opponents in a bitter struggle, or pitying them as emotional invalids, Valerie Porr cites cutting-edge science to show that BPD is a true neurobiological disorder and not, as many come to believe, a character flaw or the result of bad parenting. Porr then clearly and accessibly explains what BPD is, which therapies have proven effective, and how to rise above the weighty stigma associated with the disorder. Offering families and loved ones supportive guidance that both acknowledges the difficulties they face and shows how they can be overcome, Porr teaches empirically-supported and effective coping behaviors and interpersonal skills, such as new ways of talking about emotions, how to be aware of nonverbal communication, and validating difficult experiences. These skills are derived from Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Mentalization-based Therapy, two evidence-based treatments that have proven highly successful in reducing family conflict while increasing trust. Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder is an empowering and hopeful resource for those who wish to gain better understanding of the BPD experience--and to make use of these insights in day-to-day family interactions. Winner of the ABCT Self Help Book Seal of Merit Award 2011 |
bpd and love addiction: Facing Love Addiction - reissue Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, J. Keith Miller, 2011-11-22 A brilliant new guide to understanding the origins of codependence and the path to recovery by a nationally recognized authority on dependency and addiction. In this fresh new look at codependence, Pia Mellody traces the origins of this illness back to childhood, describing a whole range of emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical, and sexual abuses. Because of these earlier experiences, codependent adults often lack the skills necessary to lead mature lives and have satisfying relationships. Recovery from codependence comes from clearing up the toxic feelings left over from childhood and learning to reparent oneself by intervening on the adult symptoms of codependence. Central to Mellody's concept is the idea of the precious child that needs healing within each adult. She creates a framework for identifying codependent behavior and describes an effective approach to recovery that includes both therapy and self-help processes. Designed to be used with her new workbook for codependents, Breaking Free, this is a powerful tool for understanding the nature of codependence. |
bpd and love addiction: Drug Abuse Steve Sussman, Susan L. Ames, 2008-02-18 Drug Abuse: Concepts, Prevention, and Cessation serves as a comprehensive source of information on the topography of, causes of, and solutions to drug problems. The text covers conceptual issues regarding definitions of drug use, misuse, abuse, and dependence. Importantly, the text addresses a variety of theoretical bases currently applied to the development of prevention and cessation programs, specific program content from evidence-based programs, and program processes and modalities. Information regarding etiology, prevention, and cessation is neatly delineated into (a) neurobiological, (b) cognitive, (c) micro-social, and (d) macro-social/physical environmental units. The book is ideally suited as a primary source for students and professionals in chemical dependence programs, clinical and health psychology, public health, preventive medicine, nursing, sociology, and social work, among other fields, on the nature, causes, prevention, and cessation of the abuse of legal and illegal drugs. |
bpd and love addiction: Handbook of Good Psychiatric Management for Borderline Personality Disorder and Alcohol Use Disorder Lois W. Choi-Kain, M.D., M.Ed., Hilary Connery, M.D., Ph.D., 2024-10-03 |
bpd and love addiction: The Big Book on Borderline Personality Disorder Shehrina Rooney, 2019-01-08 Contrary to popular belief, borderline personality disorder is NOT a life sentence! If you live with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you already know how painful it can be. But take heart - recovery is possible! The Big Book on Borderline Personality Disorder offers advice from someone who's been there and speaks from inside BPD, with empathy, care and insight. Author Shehrina Rooney shrugs off the stigma, busts myths, and translates the diagnostic criteria into everyday language. She explains the brain science of emotion dysregulation and shares her favorite strategies and skills for weathering the storm. The Big Book on Borderline Personality Disorder includes special chapters for family and loved ones, men with BPD, and anyone newly diagnosed. The author gives readers strategies for coping with BPD in the workplace and as a parent. In short, this book covers everything you (or your parents or therapist) could possibly want to know about BPD. This book gives you the information and tools to reclaim your life. With warmth and humor, Shehrina Rooney shows you how you can find contentment, stability, and the freedom to enjoy each day as it comes. |
bpd and love addiction: Dying to Please Avis Rumney, 2009-08-11 This second edition updates the 1983 work (a gem--Booklist) with a wealth of new information. The author, a therapist and recovered anorexic, draws upon her own experience and extensive research to produce a comprehensive account of the symptoms, causes and treatments of anorexia nervosa. She illuminates the anorexic's paradox--self-annihilation in service of self-preservation--and the central task of recovery: development of a Self. The author addresses the origins and attributes of anorexia and accompanying disorders, the use and misuse of the Internet, and the concept of recovery. She addresses different therapies in detail, as well as therapies for families and interventions. A directory of organizations, a list of resources for information and referral, a bibliography and index are included. |
bpd and love addiction: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Callie Parker, 2024-11-24 How to find emotional balance and build healthy connections, even with the challenges of BPD. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and judged for your intense emotions and reactions? Do you long for deeper, more meaningful relationships but struggle with fear of abandonment or engulfment? Do you wish you could better understand the root causes of your BPD symptoms and find lasting relief? If so, then this book is for you. In Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder, mental health researcher and advocate Callie Parker offers a compassionate and comprehensive guide to navigating the complexities of this often-misunderstood condition. Drawing on the latest research, Parker provides a roadmap for understanding BPD, managing its symptoms, and building a life of stability, connection, and joy. Whether you're newly diagnosed, a long-time survivor, or a loved one seeking support, this book will empower you to embrace your strengths, overcome challenges, and create a future filled with hope and possibility. In “Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder”, you’ll discover: Uncover the nine diagnostic criteria for BPD and learn how to recognize the signs in yourself or a loved one. Explore the different subtypes of BPD, including quiet BPD, and understand how the disorder can manifest in diverse ways. Delve into the science behind BPD, understanding the brain's role in emotional dysregulation and impulsivity. Master DBT skills for managing intense emotions, reducing impulsivity, and building healthier relationships. Discover practical tips for improving sleep, nutrition, and exercise to promote mood stability and overall well-being. Learn how to identify and manage your unique emotional triggers, creating a personalized toolkit for coping with stress and adversity. Navigate the complexities of BPD relationships, from the fear of abandonment to communication breakdowns, and build stronger, more fulfilling connections. Understand the reasons behind self-harming behaviors and find healthier alternatives for coping with emotional pain. Explore the benefits of complementary therapies like mindfulness, yoga, and animal-assisted therapy in managing BPD symptoms. Learn how to communicate your needs effectively, set healthy boundaries, and build a supportive network of loved ones and professionals. Discover strategies for thriving in work, school, and social settings, even with the challenges of BPD. Find hope and inspiration in real-life stories of individuals who have successfully managed their BPD and created fulfilling lives. Challenge common misconceptions and stigma surrounding BPD, fostering greater understanding and compassion. Embrace your unique strengths and challenges, and create a personalized roadmap for healing and growth. And so much more! If you’re thinking: I've tried therapy before, and it didn't work. This book offers a fresh perspective on BPD and introduces you to evidence-based therapies like DBT, which have been proven effective in reducing symptoms and improving quality of life. I'm not sure if I have BPD, but I'm struggling. This book provides a comprehensive overview of BPD, including diagnostic criteria and self-assessment tools, to help you gain clarity and determine the best course of action. I'm afraid of being labeled or stigmatized. This book challenges the stigma surrounding BPD and empowers you to embrace your unique strengths and challenges, fostering self-acceptance and resilience. Don't let BPD control your life any longer. Take the first step towards healing and empowerment by ordering your copy of “Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder” now! |
bpd and love addiction: Borderline Personality Disorder in Adolescents, 2nd Edition Blaise Aguirre, 2014-09-15 Borderline Personality Disorder in Adolescents is a comprehensive guide to BPD, offering an overview of the disorder, its treatment options, and advice on how to live with it day-to-day. |
bpd and love addiction: Impulse Control Disorders Elias Aboujaoude, Lorrin M. Koran, 2010-02-08 In the last decade, much needed attention and research has been focused on the group of psychiatric conditions termed 'impulse control disorders' or ICDs. Pathological gambling, compulsive shopping, kleptomania, hypersexuality, Internet 'addiction', among other disorders, are characterized by a recurrent urge to perform a repetitive behavior that is gratifying in the moment but causes significant long-term distress and disability. Despite the high rate of co-morbidity with obsessive compulsive disorder, ICDs are now clearly distinguished from these disorders with a unique clinical approach for diagnosis and treatment. A wide array of psychopharmacologic and psychotherapeutic options is now available for treating these disorders. Drs Elias Aboujaoude and Lorrin M. Koran have collated the world's foremost experts in ICD research and treatment to create a comprehensive book on the frequency, evolution, treatment, and related public policy, public health, forensic, and medical issues of these disorders. This is the first book to bring together medical and social knowledge bases related to impulse control disorders. |
bpd and love addiction: Sometimes I Act Crazy Jerold J. Kreisman, M.D., Hal Straus, 2004-02-25 A major new guide to a psychological condition that affects millions of North Americans written by Dr. Jerold Kreisman, a top expert on Borderline Personality Disorder, this important, incisive book delivers the latest information on the disorder, which typically manifests itself through anger, abuse, addictions, and reckless impulsivity-behaviors that can have a devastating impact on family and friends. |
bpd and love addiction: Borderline Personality Disorder: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder & DBT for Adults with BPD Callie Parker, 2024-11-24 Embrace Emotional Balance and Build Healthy Connections This transformative bundle combines two powerful books, “Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder” and “DBT for Adults with BPD”, to equip you with the knowledge and skills to navigate the complexities of BPD and create a life filled with stability, connection, and joy. Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Gain a deep understanding of BPD, its symptoms, and the latest research. Learn to recognize the signs in yourself or a loved one and explore the different subtypes of BPD. Master DBT skills for managing emotions, reducing impulsivity, and building healthier relationships. Discover practical tips for improving sleep, nutrition, and exercise to enhance mood stability. Navigate the challenges of BPD relationships and build stronger, more fulfilling connections. Find hope and inspiration in real-life stories of individuals who have successfully managed their BPD. DBT for Adults with BPD Harness the power of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome the challenges of BPD. Master proven DBT techniques to regulate emotions, reduce impulsivity, and improve interpersonal skills. Apply DBT skills to everyday challenges and cultivate self-compassion and self-acceptance. Manage triggers, cope with stress, and prevent emotional overwhelm. Build a strong support system and communicate effectively with loved ones. Integrate DBT skills into your daily routine for long-term success and a brighter future. You might be thinking: I've tried therapy before, and it didn't work. Or perhaps, I'm not sure I'm ready to face my emotions. Maybe you're worried that DBT is too complicated or time-consuming. This book is designed to address those concerns. It offers a step-by-step approach that is easy to follow, even if you're new to DBT. It provides a safe and supportive space to explore your emotions and learn new skills at your own pace. And it's filled with practical tips and real-life examples that you can apply to your daily life. I'm not sure if I have BPD, but I'm struggling. This book provides a comprehensive overview of BPD, including diagnostic criteria and self-assessment tools, to help you gain clarity and determine the best course of action. Together, these books provide a comprehensive roadmap for understanding, managing, and thriving with BPD. Whether you're newly diagnosed, a long-time survivor, or a loved one seeking support, this bundle will empower you to embrace your strengths, overcome challenges, and create a life of balance, connection, and fulfillment. |
bpd and love addiction: The Killers Within US Scott Carroll, M.C., 2014-12-14 The Killers Within US are those individuals who are in such pain that they tragically kill others and/or themselves. These individuals often leave a wake of confusion, anger, and hurt among their survivors. This book explores the most common disorder linked to suicide, homicide and several other disorders that kill millions of people annually. A mental disorder known as Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or its traits frequently influence these individuals in particular to the point of killing. Several BPD traits span thousands of years and are mentioned within the Holy Bible. This book explores the truth about and the origin of BPD and offers both Biblical and Clinical ways to recover from it. God said: 'Let my people go' and 'the Truth will set you free'. This book is full of truth and by applying these truths within it, it is hoped that you too can be set free from the Killers Within you. |
bpd and love addiction: Integrated Treatment for Co-Occurring Disorders Sharon C. Ekleberry, 2011-04-27 Integrated Treatment for Co-Occurring Disorders addresses a complex client population, which presents service providers with significant professional challenges. Underlying personality disorders compromise treatment effectiveness for medical, other psychiatric, or trauma services, as well as the ability these individuals have in adhering to probation, parole, or court-ordered treatment requirements. A co-occuring substance use disorder amplifies the difficulties experienced by personality-disordered individuals, exacerbates the precarious nature of their relationships, and raises the skill level needed by service providers attempting to help them. There can be significant professional satisfaction in working effectively with the interplay of addiction and disorders of personality. The book brings focus to the specifics of assessment and treatment for this type of co-occurring disorder and suggests that greater adaptability, fewer self-sabotaging behaviors, and an abstinent lifestyle are all possible. Recovery from both disorders is the journey these individuals take toward greater maturation, reliable impulse control, and coping skills that are not dependent upon the evasion of the demands of living or use of substances to manage stress or uncomfortable affect. Recovery is possible, and service providers can assist these clients on their path to wellness. |
bpd and love addiction: Breaking the Cycle George Collins, George N. Collins, Andrew Adleman, 2011-10 In Breaking the Cycle, sex addiction specialist George Collins offers a powerful, no-nonsense program for helping readers identify their unhealthy sexual patterns, overcome sex addiction, and start living more productive lives. |
bpd and love addiction: The Borderline Personality Disorder Workbook Daniel J. Fox, 2019-05-01 Introducing a breakthrough, integrative approach to managing your borderline personality disorder (BPD). If you’ve been diagnosed with BPD you may feel a number of emotions—including shock, shame, sadness, abandonment, emptiness, or even anger. Even worse, you may be tempted to research your diagnosis online, only to find doomsday scenarios and terrible prognoses everywhere you click. Take a deep breath. You can get through this—and this workbook will help guide you. Despite what you may have read or been told, BPD is not the worst thing that can happen to you. Like many mental health issues, it manifests on a spectrum, and while some people may encounter extreme symptoms and consequences on one end, others may be less affected on the other. What do you all have in common? You likely experience difficulty balancing your emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. And you may even have trouble seeing yourself clearly—continuously switching from the hero to the villain of the story you’ve written about your life. So, how can you make sense of it all and start on the road to healing? Rather than utilizing a one-size-fits-all treatment, this groundbreaking and comprehensive workbook meets you where you are on your therapeutic journey, and provides an integrative approach to treating BPD drawing on evidence-based dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and interpersonal therapy. With this compassionate workbook, you’ll gain a greater understanding of your BPD, uncover your own emotional triggers, and discover your own personal motivators for positive change. Your BPD has determined how you see and live your life, but it doesn’t have to define you forever. With this workbook as your guide, you’ll be ready to face your diagnosis head-on, and take those important first steps toward lasting wellness. |
bpd and love addiction: Splitting Bill Eddy, Randi Kreger, 2021-07-01 This highly anticipated second edition of Splitting includes new chapters on abuse, alienation, and false allegations; as well as information about the four types of domestic violence, protective orders, and child custody disputes. Are you divorcing someone who’s making the process as difficult as possible? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? If so, you need this book. For more than ten years, Splitting has served as the ultimate guide for people divorcing a high conflict person, one who often has borderline or narcissistic (or even antisocial) personality disorder. Among other things, it has saved readers thousands of dollars, helped them keep custody of their children, and effectively guided them through a difficult legal and emotional process. Written by a family law attorney and therapist, and the author of Stop Walking on Eggshells, Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers. Turn to this guide to help you: Predict what your spouse may do or say in court Take control of your case with assertiveness and strategic thinking Choose a lawyer who understands your case Learn how e-mails and social networking can be used against you If you need help navigating a high-conflict divorce from a manipulative spouse, this book includes all of the critical information you need to work through the process of divorce in an emotionally balanced, productive way. |
bpd and love addiction: Half in Love with Death Joel Paris, 2023-07-20 The second edition of Half in Love with Death gives therapists new tools to help manage chronically suicidal patients. Clinicians will learn how to tolerate suicidality, understand the inner world of patients, avoid repeated hospitalizations, and focus on life situations that maintain suicidal ideas and behaviors. This new edition includes a number of major updates and a new chapter on the epidemiology of suicidality. Each chapter develops a theoretical perspective based on empirical data, and many are illustrated by clinical examples. Topics addressed throughout the text include: Distinctions among various types of suicidality The inner world of the chronically suicidal patient, with a particular focus on pain, emptiness, and hopelessness The relationship between chronic suicidality and personality disorders, especially the category of borderline personality The effectiveness of psychotherapy and pharmacotherapy for chronically suicidal patients The risks of litigation in managing this patient population This is a crucially important resource for clinicians who treat chronically suicidal patients, one that provides enlightened and evidence-based guidelines. |
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bpd and love addiction: Borderline Personality Disorder National Collaborating Centre for Mental Health (Great Britain), 2009-01-01 This volume sets out clear recommendations for healthcare staff on how to diagnose and manage young people and adults who have borderlin personality disorder, in order to significantly improve their treatment and care. The accompanying CD-ROM contains all of the evidence on which the recommendations are based. |
bpd and love addiction: Facing Codependence Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, J. Keith Miller, 2011-11-22 Pia Mellody creates a framework for identifying codependent thinking, emotions and behaviour and provides an effective approach to recovery. Mellody sets forth five primary adult symptoms of this crippling condition, then traces their origin to emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical and sexual abuses that occur in childhood. Central to Mellody's approach is the concept that the codependent adult's injured inner child needs healing. Recovery from codependence, therefore, involves clearing up the toxic emotions left over from these painful childhood experiences. |
bpd and love addiction: Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder Stephen Arterburn, Robert Wise, 2017-10-01 This book is for anyone who thought they were good friends with someone, only to be yelled at unexpectedly, for anyone who has a coworker who twists others’ words, or for anyone who has a spouse who is violent and accusatory. Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental illness that can make loved ones feel as if it is their fault. Stephen Arterburn and Dr. Robert Wise wants readers to know it’s not their fault and there is hope. In this book, they offer readers advice on how to relate to people with BPD at home, work, and church. Readers don’t need to feel alone any longer. Help is on the way. |
bpd and love addiction: Males With Eating Disorders Arnold E. Andersen, 2014-06-17 First published in 1990. The subject of anorexia nervosa and, more recently, bulimia nervosa in males has been a source of interest and controversy in the fields of psychiatry and medicine for more than 300 years. These disorders, sometimes called eating disorders, raise basic questions concerning the nature of abnormalities of the motivated behaviors: Are they subsets of more widely recognized illnesses such as mood disorders? Are they understandable by reference to underlying abnormalities of biochemistry or brain function? In what ways are they similar to and in what ways do they differ from anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa in females? This book will be of interest to a wide variety of people—physicians, psychologists, nurses, social workers, occupational therapists, nutritionists, educators, and all others who may be interested for personal or professional reasons. |
bpd and love addiction: What Causes Addiction? Mercedes Muñoz, 2005 There is no shortage today of opinions on what causes addiction. While some experts believe social factors contribute, others argue that the chemical properties of drugs are solely to blame. This anthology explores various theories on the causes of addiction. |
bpd and love addiction: 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Bill Eddy, 2018-02-06 Some difficult people aren’t just hard to deal with—they’re dangerous. Do you know someone whose moods swing wildly? Do they act unreasonably suspicious or antagonistic? Do they blame others for their own problems? When a high-conflict person has one of five common personality disorders—borderline, narcissistic, paranoid, antisocial, or histrionic—they can lash out in risky extremes of emotion and aggression. And once an HCP decides to target you, they’re hard to shake. But there are ways to protect yourself. Using empathy-driven conflict management techniques, Bill Eddy, a lawyer and therapist with extensive mediation experience, will teach you to: - Spot warning signs of the five high-conflict personalities in others and in yourself. - Manage relationships with HCPs at work and in your private life. - Safely avoid or end dangerous and stressful interactions with HCPs. Filled with expert advice and real-life anecdotes, 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life is an essential guide to helping you escape negative relationships, build healthy connections, and safeguard your reputation and personal life in the process. And if you have a high-conflict personality, this book will help you help yourself. |
边缘性人格障碍 - 知乎
Apr 15, 2020 · BPD患者在治疗上较为困难,并且有着高于普通人群10-50倍的自杀死亡率(Andrew E. et al. 2002)。 回想当年19世纪末20世纪初的时候,弗洛伊德的精神分析理论尚 …
什么是 NPD 和 BPD 型人格? - 知乎
BPD型人格. BPD,即边缘性人格障碍(Borderline Personality Disorder),是一种以情绪、人际关系、自我形象以及行为的不稳定为特征的心理疾病。其主要特征包括: 情感不稳定:BPD …
BPD边缘型人格障碍生存指南(如何与边缘型人格障碍相处)
Feb 15, 2024 · bpd的各种症状恰好是导致共病问题的主要因素,如果你的bpd症状好转,共病问题也会随之好转。 四、bpd边缘型人格障碍的自杀行为与蓄意自伤 1.自伤行为意味着他们急需从 …
如何确定自己是否为“BPD(边缘型人格障碍)”? - 知乎
边缘性人格障碍(bpd) 如果您患有bpd,那么一切都会变得不稳定:您的人际关系,情绪,思维,行为-甚至您的身份。 什么是边缘性人格障碍(bpd)? 如果您患有边缘性人格障 …
边缘性人格障碍都有什么表现? - 知乎
或者说,bpd和双向都是大起大伏,但是bpd的大起大伏是一天之内、甚至几小时之内的,但是双向的大起大伏一般会持续好几天,而且不是每天都会见到大起大伏,很多双向病人几个月甚至数 …
“高功能“BPD(边缘性人格障碍)是什么样子? - 知乎
但是bpd的一些弊端影响了高功能bpd不仅不容易对异性信任,而且多疑,高洞察力也使高功能bpd没那么容易被俘获,简称既难搞又机车。这意味着高功能bpd的伴侣需要足够真诚和足够 …
边缘性人格障碍(bpd)该如何自救? - 知乎
bpd可以瞬间精准共情任何人的感受,唯一共情不到的人却是自己,所谓的对他人的高共情也不过是对自身封闭的一种外在投射补偿。 bpd从未看见真正的自我!发疯一样的共情拯救他人不过 …
当BPD遇到NPD会发生什么? - 知乎
bpd 真正爱上一个人是无畏无惧的,你越想抛弃她越想纠缠。这种纠缠在bpd心中会慢慢变成一种斗志,也可能让她发现原生家庭带给她的没有爱,全是伤害,她也许会把亲密关系中的npd变 …
NPD和BPD有什么相似之处和不同之处,这两种疾病能共存吗?
bpd实际是想通过主动抛弃的行为来威胁对方不要抛弃自己。(在bpd眼里亲密对象和别人说话就是在抛弃自己) 虽然npd和bpd在强控制欲上有相似之处,但底层逻辑还是不一样的,防御机制 …
高功能边缘型人格障碍是怎样的? - 知乎
这题我熟 大家好我是斯芬克斯二号 专业咨询BPD 关注我看更多BPD相关. bpd大致分为四个类型,这四个类型里 只有2种有较大概率可以和高功能兼容。 高功能BPD大方向上可分为两个类 …
边缘性人格障碍 - 知乎
Apr 15, 2020 · BPD患者在治疗上较为困难,并且有着高于普通人群10-50倍的自杀死亡率(Andrew E. et al. 2002)。 回想当年19世纪末20世纪初的时候,弗洛伊德的精神分析理论尚在美国心理学界占 …
什么是 NPD 和 BPD 型人格? - 知乎
BPD型人格. BPD,即边缘性人格障碍(Borderline Personality Disorder),是一种以情绪、人际关系、自我形象以及行为的不稳定为特征的心理疾病。其主要特征包括: 情感不稳定:BPD患者常常经历 …
BPD边缘型人格障碍生存指南(如何与边缘型人格障碍相处)
Feb 15, 2024 · bpd的各种症状恰好是导致共病问题的主要因素,如果你的bpd症状好转,共病问题也会随之好转。 四、bpd边缘型人格障碍的自杀行为与蓄意自伤 1.自伤行为意味着他们急需从其他人那里 …
如何确定自己是否为“BPD(边缘型人格障碍)”? - 知乎
边缘性人格障碍(bpd) 如果您患有bpd,那么一切都会变得不稳定:您的人际关系,情绪,思维,行为-甚至您的身份。 什么是边缘性人格障碍(bpd)? 如果您患有边缘性人格障碍(bpd),您可能会感 …
边缘性人格障碍都有什么表现? - 知乎
或者说,bpd和双向都是大起大伏,但是bpd的大起大伏是一天之内、甚至几小时之内的,但是双向的大起大伏一般会持续好几天,而且不是每天都会见到大起大伏,很多双向病人几个月甚至数年才发病一 …